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| Author: | The Pesh [ Mon Jul 13, 2009 2:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Girl thought i was fake. |
Last night I opened a girl fine and went into some kino tests. I did the two hands test (i'm not exactly sure of the name of this tactic) where she puts her hands on top of mine and i lower them to see if she does, then put my fingers in between hers, etc.. She passed the first test by lowering her hands with mine but the other 2 tests didnt work. Anyways, then i brought up e.s.p. (she never heard of e.s.p.) and tried the number test: first i did 1-4 (i guessed 3 and she said 2), then i did 1-10 (i guessed 7 and she said 7). But then she said that 7 was a comfort number just as 3 was. she said she initially thought 3 but then chose 2 and asked if everyone guesses those numbers all the time. i lied and said no, last time it was 1 and 1. she gave me a little attitude and said whatever and said i dont have anymore "tricks" to try on her. What could i have done differently? and can i do in case this happens again or something similar so she doesn't feel like im trying to impress her with these tricks? Also, later on we kept talking and she started talking about her nationality and so i tried to dhv her by saying something like "oh my god, you're French? i had such a big crush on this French girl in high school, i can't even talk to you" ..etc. as i said "i cant even talk to you" she mouthed "awkward" at me and kind of rolled her eyes and looked away. I'm guessing the main reason why i didnt win this girl over was because i didnt dhv myself enough but thats just my guess. what do you guys think? any advice or comments are always appreciated and thanks in advance. |
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| Author: | driberif [ Mon Jul 13, 2009 3:19 am ] |
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how would you feel if some random dude came up to you and kept repeatedly running esp 'tricks' that didn't work? And then later on started talking about some girl he had a crush on in highschool with no background story. The tricks man, im personally not into all those tricks. I am more into the inner game and building comfort and rapport. She doesn't feel as much as a lab rat this way. It is def more challenging than routines but it is so much more productive. Maybe you should look into it, its genuine conversation, and you wont feel or give the impression that your a stage show. Second, your comment about the crush... fine, I understand what your going for. The race/background is not a problem for you, your a well rounded person that is accepting of everyone, hell you even had a crush on a french chick in highschool. Problem is it has no backing. You could be easily making it up and she can see that. Did you make it up man? Tie it down, give her a name and a reason why you had a crush on her. Not puttin you down brother, you understand. Be cool game hard.d |
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| Author: | The Pesh [ Mon Jul 13, 2009 3:27 am ] |
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thanks driberif. i totally get what you're saying. especially about feeling like a lab rat. i did do some conversation besides this but definitely not enough to build comfort. i think i just got too excited and wanted to do the tricks because they are fun. sometimes thats all i need to do and then build comfort from there but this girl definitely proved that that's not always the case. and thanks for the crush advice. i definitely made it up haha but i dont think she was thinking that. but just in case, i will definitely add more to the crush story. thanks again for the adivce =D |
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| Author: | TonyFerrara [ Mon Jul 13, 2009 5:59 am ] |
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Yeah I think you should of had more of a background story on the "French Crush", you should of placed a name on her and built more rapport and DHV. |
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| Author: | Little Panda [ Mon Jul 13, 2009 10:47 am ] |
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I think you should've properly listened to what she had to say (when she was talking about her self). Girls love to talk about themselves and their feelings etc. So maybe you should've have first finished talking about HER and then moved on to your DHV's. I know it always works for me, so... |
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| Author: | driberif [ Mon Jul 13, 2009 4:42 pm ] |
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Girls will give you all kinds of topics to talk about if you 'listen properly' like zentrode says. Girls love it when you listen and interject intelligent meaningful contributions to the conversation. This also allows situations for her to be vunerable and really connect. This is another whole topic though. Inner game is much much different than the canned routine approaches and much more effective if you ask me. |
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