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Author:  figureitout [ Thu Jun 25, 2009 5:51 am ]
Post subject:  being called weird???
Does anyone get called weird from time to time. Like you will hear that some girls you just met the night before said you were weird. I get this to often. But the girl seems like she's really having a fun convo, and i will even f-close some of them that said i'm weird. Some of my friend that are girls will tell me that i'm weird in a non joking manner, but they still want to date me. But it still bothers me inside and reminds of being a complete dork. And since i've been into pua my social skills are way better and my results with girls is drastically better.
So what i'm asking does any pua get called weird a lot but is still good with women? Is being called weird a bad thing or something i should embrace?
Author:  anhpeter [ Thu Jun 25, 2009 6:54 am ]
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if it works, embrace that shit.
Author:  WillingLearner [ Thu Jun 25, 2009 7:46 am ]
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I think some it was Style that said if you get called "weird" you are doing too many gimmicky tricks and you're not congruent with your routines. The problem is that it doesn't feel natural to the girls
Author:  Stetson [ Thu Jun 25, 2009 8:06 am ]
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Actually I don't agree with what Style said, and thats because I like to make it more fun than usual.

Most of the time, I will throw some over-energetic really funny random shit combined with DHV and flirting.

They have no choice but to laugh their asses off whole night :lol:


Now to the point: There are always some girls who call ME weird but it doesn't really matter. Attraction isn't a choice for them to make, they just feel it when the right guy comes along.
Just reply "Weird is sexy ;)"


Its not a big deal.
Author:  alvarado [ Thu Jun 25, 2009 8:31 am ]
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I always take this like a shit test and I always say some like ur wierdR for thinkin I'm wierd all this giRls here haven sed that to me. But I gues ur the 1st 1
Author:  Jaybot [ Thu Jun 25, 2009 9:33 pm ]
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Probably a combo of mis-calibration and using routines for the bulk of things. If you are high energy or low energy you will seem weird, your body language may also be awkward.

As for routines most guys have no idea how to read body language and sub-communication so roll up to women that like them and are trying to hard and doing weird shit when she just wants you to kiss her. But yar routines serve a purpose but don't fall into the social robot trap or use things that aren't congruent.

Standing out in conversation/against other guys can be done in easier and less gimmicky ways.

Ask yourself does the woman really like you or does she like the routines?
Author:  figureitout [ Fri Jun 26, 2009 2:50 am ]
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thanks for all the advice. one thing i didnt mention is i've lived in new england all my life and this is my first year in the deep south, so natural i'm a bint more sarcastic, blunt, and have a different accent.
Author:  ~V~ [ Fri Jun 26, 2009 8:08 am ]
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yeh I agree with jaybot on this one....if ur on different levels of energy..u'll be that weird guy!

u just have to keep workin on it till u get that fine tune...

hell I've been called weird ,stupid,immature and even foreign...All u have to do is dont take stuff personally unless its affecting ur social status. Once u find that balance you wont be worrying about it.....just keep pushing!
Author:  Jaybot [ Fri Jun 26, 2009 11:33 am ]
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ahhh see that adds another element, if you are in a different area it could literally just be a case of mannerisms etc. DOn't sweat it if you are getting results jsut keep going
Author:  Redmoxy [ Sat Jun 27, 2009 4:09 am ]
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never b tooo energetic have a james bond kind of charm then from there u can be playful (sortaa like matador)
Author:  MikeyCasanova [ Sat Jun 27, 2009 6:27 pm ]
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I don't get called weird to much but when i do i just take it as a sign of interest. The guys here i agree with, being called weird can be caused by the routines and not doing them for you. But I don't know you well enough to see it and properly judge it. So my opinion is get a wing and have him watch you in a few sets. Kind of like a eagle camera at a football game. This way he can see you from angles that you can't. If it bothers you that much. This is probably the quickest way to get it fixed.
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