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Author:  Danman5 [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 11:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Can't keep attraction
Hi guys,

First post! :D .. my sticking point is keeping attraction and interest after the K/F close. I find this particularly strange because, (i don't want to sound big-headed), but ive never had trouble getting girls. I suppose i'd be a 7 or 8. I could close a HB, right up to a HB10.

My problem is keeping the attraction she felt the night before when i closed her and bringing it to the day after when i, for example, i go to text her. The HB usually gets bored and will not want another meet up etc.

How can i achieve keeping attraction to the next day etc?

Thanks

Dan
Author:  IAm-Me [ Mon Jun 08, 2009 1:47 am ]
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This may be a question of buyer's remorse, so I don't think it's a matter of attraction. It's about building comfort.
Author:  Danman5 [ Mon Jun 08, 2009 4:37 pm ]
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IAm-Me,

Thanks for your reply. OK, so perhaps it is 'builing comfort' i am finding difficult... can you gave me some of the main techniques to achieve this, and what exactly I am trying to achieve - e.g. making her feel secure, special, attractive??

Thanks
Dan
Author:  Little Panda [ Tue Jun 09, 2009 9:45 am ]
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I suggest you read the Venusian Arts Handbook by Mystery.
Author:  IAm-Me [ Tue Jun 09, 2009 5:20 pm ]
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I suggest you DONT NEED to read the V.A handbook by Mystery.

What I suggest is you should run compliance tests to build comfort.

Throw out qualification there. Ask her about her hobbies, make her PROVE herself to you that she has more than her beauty. Reward her if she does well. Punish her if she refuses to comply. Beyond this, you also need to ask her questions that are open-ended and show genuine interest in finding out more about her, let it be here character, background etc...

In essence, she will feel more comfortable the more intense she interacts with you (which is by throwing out bigger compliance tests).

I will post more on my blog in the coming days about attraction and comfort, which will give you a lot more concrete examples.
Author:  Fiftyone [ Wed Jun 10, 2009 4:42 pm ]
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Quote:
I suggest you DONT NEED to read the V.A handbook by Mystery.

What I suggest is you should run compliance tests to build comfort.

Throw out qualification there. Ask her about her hobbies, make her PROVE herself to you that she has more than her beauty. Reward her if she does well. Punish her if she refuses to comply. Beyond this, you also need to ask her questions that are open-ended and show genuine interest in finding out more about her, let it be here character, background etc...

In essence, she will feel more comfortable the more intense she interacts with you (which is by throwing out bigger compliance tests).

I will post more on my blog in the coming days about attraction and comfort, which will give you a lot more concrete examples.
So that's all that you gotta do? I seem to be having the same problem here.. especially when it's an online hookup. We meet, I kiss her, I fuck her, then the next day I txt her and no reply. It's like I was just a booty call. I don't want to DATE the girls that I've been with, but I do want to stay in their lives, y'know? It's frustrating. :(
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