Hey Cajun,
I don't know how long have been on the game or the community or what kind of method you're using (routines based or natural). But as I adapt natural game as my method, things feels pretty natural for me.
Honestly, I rarely if not never compliment woman too much,yes after she had done something I like (doing what I want, etc.) I gave her a compliment, but not before that. So no, what are you doing, miss you, etc before you're in a relationship. That's my personal take.
To keep the conversation interesting, I personally don't spend time so much on the phone call. Maybe 20 mintues of laughing and good convo, I quit because I have something to do (whether it's just false time constraint or for real, because another girl (which is my mum
needs my help). Make sure that you don't talk crap too much on the phone, play with their emotions with questions or story and tease them. If they tease you, banter a little and stop.
For example
Me: U know I just read this book about bla bla bla bla. And I should say I'm quite touched by it, not until to the point where I cried, but just touched me. Do you remember the first book that made you burst into tears?? (I've tried this with 5 girls and the all love it. Try by yourself
HB: Yeah definitely, I love this book and bla bla bla
Me: OMG!!! You cried because of that one??
HB: Hey, you don't have a good taste if you don't cry!
Me: That's why I like you. Hehe.. (implying that she's not a good choice either)
HB: LOL
Hope this helps,
Best pal,
Steven
