It's always harder to "be yourself" ( or "be your best self" as TD would say ) when you actually know the people you are with. Just try to do it, bit by bit.
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| Author: | laspit [ Wed Apr 15, 2009 1:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | inner game issues at work |
Ive been trying increase my inner game, not only around girls but more so in the work environment. I find it funny how i get so nervous in my monday morning meetings at work where i have to answer to a crowd of 20 people i work with in regards to how my project is going and i wont be shy to go up to a group of hb10's and start talking. Im assuming its because with those HB10s i can just walk away and not see them again, whereas with my core group of co-workers, i see them on a daily basis and 1/2 of them are my seniors. Aside from the confident image i project when im around others, i do care alot about what others think and this can be the downfall of me at times. I am very confident in the things i do or the way i portay myself, but this inner quality of worrying about what others think has always cause me to become frustrated. What are some good ways to deal with this problem? Examples include, asking your boss questions, talking in a large group meeting and ways to just be yourself. Because im sure if i show my true self, i would be liked more at work. The floor is yours guys, any suggestiones would be much appreciated. Cheers. |
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| Author: | play2win [ Sat Apr 18, 2009 8:26 pm ] |
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It's always harder to "be yourself" ( or "be your best self" as TD would say ) when you actually know the people you are with. Just try to do it, bit by bit.
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| Author: | AceofSpades07 [ Sun Apr 19, 2009 1:34 pm ] |
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I know everyone says to just not care about the outcome of an interaction but this def does apply to your work. When I first started in my profession I was unsure of a lot of things and rightfully so cause i didnt know that much and acted insecure and nervous. After some time i came to get good at my trade but still was nervous when people asked me things even when I knew i was right. One day one of my partners on the job said somthing about it. He was like you know how to do this so act like it. When your right act likke your right. i know its pretty straightforward but thats really all there is to it hope it helps and ill let you know if I can think of anything else. |
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| Author: | manman [ Sun May 03, 2009 10:06 pm ] |
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Not giving a shit what people think about you is an art in itself. It can be mastered fully, and it boosts your attractiveness to extremes. And makes you so damn confident that you can feel everything you say and do is just fine, and even attractive.. You NEVER worry about ANY situations with people, because you believe in what you say so much, that people respect you for it and even most of the time, they agree with your point of view.. Being yourself and not caring of peoples responses or thoughts of you Is something you learn to be. Because lemme see, about 94- 95% of people in the world act on the way other people respond to them. Social permission. They don't act on WHAT THEY BELIEVE AND FEEL INSIDE. When a woman meets a man whom isn't lke this is obviously high status, confident in himself, and passionate about his own thoughts. They like him before they will like the other 94% of man. |
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