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Author:  Jlax [ Tue Apr 14, 2009 10:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Motivate me

I'm not motivated to go sarge or talk to girls anymore... I dont know why... Has this ever happened to anyone? I'm improving my game and all but I just dont feel like sarging anymore... Im guessing it's a stage we all go through... Or is it?

Author:  johnyp03 [ Wed Apr 15, 2009 12:49 am ]
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No one can motivate you better than yourself. Me telling you to go sarging is not going to work, you need to WANT to sarge. The best motivation is one of two things: pain that is unbearable, and pleasure you cannot live without. Pain is usually a good motivator to get you started (I'm guessing it is why many people get into the game). But that great feeling of connecting with someone is what ultimately keeps you motivated to keep sarging.

If you're looking outward for motivation, you're looking the wrong way! Instead of getting motivated, many times you will just waste your time.

Author:  vice22 [ Thu Apr 16, 2009 4:55 pm ]
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johnyp has it right, you have to look within yourself, maybe you started the game because you had something missing from your life, and this could feel the void. and now you realise this hasnt filled that void like your were hoping it had...

if this is the case, you need to reevalute your situation, and find out whats missing from your life and get to the core problem... maybe in need of a relationship or lack of a social circle, could be any number of things...

on the other hand, you may have dedicated to much time to sarging and its time to get your life back in balance... as mystery says, you need balance in your life to get the most of each area of it. so maybe learn an instrument or work towards a promotion etc

and lastly, you might just need a new challange, maybe raise your aim a little and just sarge the HB10's and nothing else, to give you a little bit of a challange...

this may of helped and hit the spot, as when i have lost motivation in something it usually boils down to these three categories.

hope this helped dude

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