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Author:  A Minor [ Mon Apr 13, 2009 7:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Making her feel the PAIN OF LOSS
Hello everyone,

It has been a while since I've posted. Partially because I've been busy with law school and partially because I was moving away from "sarging" and applying more of a natural philosophy to going out, having a good time, and meeting women. Having done that, I see a technical hole in my game which I'd love some insight on.

I can easily meet women with a single "hello there.. you're cute!" and immediately kino with hugs, dancing, etc. Within a few minutes, heavier kino will have initiated and all seems well. What I'm realizing though is that I may make myself "TOO AVAILABLE" in the club. Even if I'm a fun cool guy to hang with, I'm just too willing to hang around and give you that value.

So, I guess you could say, I'm looking to include a bit of sales 101 into my game: Causing the pain of loss so that the target knows what she might miss out on.

With that said, I was curious how you guys go about it. Personally, I don't want to loose a girl I've been gaming for a while not only because I've invested but because I wouldn't have approached her and stuck around if I didn't find her attractive and cool. So hows it done?

Thanks in advance,
Minor
Author:  JSmooth [ Mon Apr 13, 2009 10:25 pm ]
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Minor here is one of the best strategies in my opinion for creating attraction and giving her that bit of loss. Basically, as you are working your way through the venue. You are literally talking to everyone amping up your social proof and pre-selection as you talk to women.

By the time you get to her group she has seen you interact with other in this club setting. She is probably curious about you to say the least. After talking to them for about 5-7 minutes or so just eject. Just simply "It's a pleasure meeting you type of thing."

You demonstrate right there you are willing to walk away. Then you talk to the next available set nearest to you. Keep going.

One of two things will happen. If she is attracted to you because of your social proof, pre-selection, and your conversation she'll come over and reopen you which would be awesome! OR you can always reopen her later. She won't be as guarded the second time you talk to her, and she knows you are willing to walk away, and she could possibly loose you.

Give it a shot! :D
Author:  Wolfus [ Tue Apr 14, 2009 12:04 am ]
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I agree with JSmooth here. Pretty much exactly what i'd do.
Author:  A Minor [ Tue Apr 14, 2009 5:01 am ]
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Thank you guys for you input.

J I read your post twice and heres my response:

Firstly, allow me to add that I display pre-selection and social proof while in set. I will open other girls, display "alphaness" with other guys (speak to them cordially, initiate touching and proximity, etc. - never an asshole, just friendly and alph), etc. On Saturday, a girl "fell into my lap" in front of another girl and I started joking with her in front of my target. Worked.

In any case, it seems like your suggesting that I literally walk around and talk with EVERYONE. I say this because, as I'm sure we all know, 5-7 minutes with a girl and then walking off may leave an impression, but also leaves room for other guys. The clubs I go to now are full of very good looking well versed guys. They don't cause me problems while I'm in set. But, from experience, I've seen that if I leave a girl alone for long enough she'll find another flashy toy.

Thus, in order to pull off what you're suggesting, I'd have to speak to so many that by the time I come for round two I'm bound to find a vacant one. Am I correct in my reasoning?
Author:  A Minor [ Tue Apr 14, 2009 5:02 am ]
Post subject: 
Thank you guys for you input.

J I read your post twice and heres my response:

Firstly, allow me to add that I display pre-selection and social proof while in set. I will open other girls, display "alphaness" with other guys (speak to them cordially, initiate touching and proximity, etc. - never an asshole, just friendly and alph), etc. On Saturday, a girl "fell into my lap" in front of another girl and I started joking with her in front of my target. Worked.

In any case, it seems like your suggesting that I literally walk around and talk with EVERYONE. I say this because, as I'm sure we all know, 5-7 minutes with a girl and then walking off may leave an impression, but also leaves room for other guys. The clubs I go to now are full of very good looking well versed guys. They don't cause me problems while I'm in set. But, from experience, I've seen that if I leave a girl alone for long enough she'll find another flashy toy.

Thus, in order to pull off what you're suggesting, I'd have to speak to so many that by the time I come for round two I'm bound to find a vacant one. Am I correct in my reasoning?
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