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| Author: | zeefrenchman [ Tue Apr 07, 2009 8:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Too much energy |
Lots of people have told me I have too much energy. Initially, this attracts girls, but usually exhausts them before I can build comfort/trust. In a club/bar or at a party, I'm not afraid to dance. One time I walked straight into a bar, started dancing like a crazy man - immediately 2 HBSs joined me. But I just kept going and going and eventually they got over it. It's the same thing when talking to girls as well. I go off on tangents and find it's too much for them after a while. Any advice would be appreciated. |
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| Author: | fealinlucky [ Tue Apr 07, 2009 2:17 pm ] |
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Hmm... consider this a calibration issue... I have ADD.. but dont take medication for it... I tend to be very animated and a little bouncy aka all over the place when telling stories and what not... The idea is to enter a set with High energy, but not so much that its "over the top" When your out sarging this week.. be mindfull of that and make an active attempt to "tone it back" a little during your sets... use the feedback to help you determin just how much energy to enter a set with. as for going off on tangents... just remember that a conversation is 90-10 with you providing 90% of the conversation, but you need to make sure they are interested and actually providing that 10% back.. or they are just going to get bored. JMT Lucky |
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