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Author:  Fu$$ [ Tue Mar 24, 2009 1:53 am ]
Post subject:  How to deal with my new life?
Dudes, thats a real strange problem:

Im pickuping some ladies, I pickup one girl some day, one another... even two ladies in the same day in everyone eyes... People start do calm me as a ladie's man or something like that, they started to sees me different...

So, wheres the problem? The deal is that after the night cames the day, the day life in college, people make jokes bout the girls, and start to tease me, with the girls that they know that I pickup, in front of such girls. And I dont know how to react! Im not habituated with that, so, even looks like the girls has made a mistake about me or Im not so good as I've looked before.

I started to study seduction one year ago, and to put in practice 4 months ago. I'm not some kind of normal guy, Im excentric, before I always looked like an excentric weirdo, now that I've started to pickup, Im looked like an excentric fucking guy, people start to please me, invite me to parties, and everything else.

Its a whole different life in just half year, so much change for me, if you need more information to understand the background of my situation, dont hesitates to ask me.

Thanks guys, Im waiting some answers!

Fu$$Bird
Author:  PleasantMuse [ Tue Mar 24, 2009 3:24 pm ]
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Hey Fussbird,

From what you've described, I don't think you have much of a problem at all. So the boys are ripping on you now and again. But its probably only because they are jealous or insecure with their own pick up endevours. They tease you because they want what you have. I was in the same boat not that long ago. My friends started to see the changes that I've made in my life, and as much as I would hope they would be supportive, they were hating on me the same way your people are with you. Its human nature dude, people want what they can't have.

The only solution there really is, is just don't give a fuck. Who cares if they tease you? Are you happier than you were a year ago? You got into this lifestyle for a reason, and from what it sounds like you're becoming more sucessful at it (ie picking up girls all the time, getting invited to social outings, etc). Don't regret what you've done. Make the transition from a PUA to a true Alpha male. stay in frame. And live it up to the fullest. We only get one chance in this life, might as well make the best of it. Hope this helps.

Cheers
Author:  Fu$$ [ Tue Mar 24, 2009 6:12 pm ]
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Not just that... its goes far:

I can't handle with such life, for example, I was interested in a girl that I *closed, but I always find her with her friends, and they tease me, in a funny way, commenting that I'm a scoundrel guy (I pickuped in the same day the girl who lives with her), I doesnt lie, because she was aware of that, but I always looks like a retard when they do it, because I want to finish what I started!

This is my real problem now, things like that are always happening with me...

The problem is: I cant be a jerk all the time, and Im embarrassed in those situations. How can I progress with my seductions if I stop just cause people tease me and the girls?

Thanks.
Author:  Jaybot [ Tue Mar 24, 2009 7:25 pm ]
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Sounds like you have done what most people done and got as much ass as possible, you need to either call your shots better, don't tell your friends or stop picking up girls that you see in school or college or work etc
Author:  zhukaching [ Wed Mar 25, 2009 3:20 am ]
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own the identity, be that playboy if youre a playboy. if you step back when someone make comment about your identity, they will just run all over you.

but i would recommend not to pick up chick that you will have to see for a long time, afterall when the game ends, you still got the life goes on and keep seeing those chick awkwardly.
Author:  Fu$$ [ Wed Mar 25, 2009 10:38 pm ]
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Hey,

I'm a kind of excentric guy that people are always commenting, for me, its just do some pickup that people will notice and comment! So, its not my fault that people are aware of my stuff.

Then, I couldnt simply stop pickup girls here in college cause all my social circle here is the college! I live far from my home, in a small city, and I just know people from college... stop pickup in college is stop pickup.

Great deal dudes, what should I do?

Fu$$Bird
Author:  The Big Bad Wolf [ Wed Mar 25, 2009 11:08 pm ]
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Is it a problem that women realize you are interested in sex, and tease you about it ?

I mean, the fact that they're aware of your game only means that the women you are with will know what you're about, and that they will not have any unpleasant surprises.

It isn't necessarily a bad thing.


I have FBs that know girls I've been gaming and such, and in my experience it has given me some shit-tests and some laughs, but I still get just as much positive attention and just as much sex (if not more) so it's not really a problem.

Just let them have their little fun teasing you about it.
It's when they start yelling and acting angry you should be worried.

:P

Hope it helps,
Cheers.
Author:  Fu$$ [ Thu Mar 26, 2009 3:12 am ]
Post subject: 
I will try to stop my worries at all, and just be what I want: a PUA.

But Wolf, the problem is not with girls, but with the ladie's male friends. Instead... I will try to rock.

Then I could have fun with all of that.

Thanks!

Fu$$Bird
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