Good afternoon my fellow PUAs. I would like to begin with a quick thank you to all that have assisted in enlightening men to the art of PUA. Your advice on this forum has taken me further with women than I could have ever imagined. But I digress. I have a question for the masters out there. How do you deal with an HB that basically has the skills of a master female PUA?
Just to give you a little background, I've known this girl for about 5 years now. There has always been attraction between us, but we never really hooked up due to timing. Either I was in a relationship, she was in a relationship, etc. Well she got back from Australia a few months ago, and we've been hanging out ever since. Mostly becasue she makes for an AMAZING pivot. So fast forward to last Tuesday. I went out for St. Patty's day with some people and ended up running into her at the bar. I was opening a 2 set right by the dance floor when she came up and interupted me. Without hesitation, she grabbed me and pulled me onto the dancefloor. At first I was a little pissed about the cock block, but that was before I knew her intentions. Within seconds, we were all over each other. At the end of the night we were on our way back to my place, when her friend showed up balling her eyes out about some dude, so naturally the girl I was with had to leave. I went to see her on thursday (she works in the bar beside my office) and we talked about what had happened. It was definently something she had wanted to do for awhile, as did I, but that was the extent of the convo. I didn't want to show too much interest, so I set up a date for this Tuesday and finished off with a quick, " don't go falling in love with me".
So we have our date tomorrow night, and I'm not really sure how I should proceed. As I had said earlier, she is a master PUA. She can make any guy fall in love with her. Admittedly, I myself have slightly fallen for this siren's song. All the techniques I've used on her have worked, but she has this talent to flip those techniques back on me. For the last little while I've been using a push-pull technique that seems to be working like a charm, however she is using the same and all it is doing is creating LOTS of sexual tension.
My question is, how do I proceed from here? Do I wait and keep my cool until she cracks, or do I make a move (which would also give her the power ie calling the shots)? Any advice you could offer would be very much appreciated.
Happy sarging, boys.
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