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| Author: | nexilegame [ Mon Mar 16, 2009 2:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | LEARNING Process.. HOW? |
I decided to really take a step back and think about my game today, since It hasn't been moving quite how I want it to. I really need to look at things systematically again. Now, when one goes out, they should have something they are focusing on improving, for example.. kino, group theory, eye contact, being sexual, etc. Now, Ive tried focusing on something for an entire week, and although it seemed like it worked at first, it never got into my subconcious fully. Like I would practice eye contact 24/7 for a whole week. and by the end i had no anxiety holding ec for long periods... but a few weeks later it came back and I wasnt good at it anymore. Now there is the theory that it takes 21 days for a habit to form. So essentially you should do something for a month to make it a part of you. But there seems to be too many things to focus on, look at how many products are out there and how many sections of each product. 20 dvd long products? Interview series with 20 different cds? Honestly lets look at all the things you need to get good at to not just be good at picking up girls but to be a better person: Eye contact Smile upon opening Body facing towards or away in relation to the girls Posture: Shoulders back, Head up! Being Interesting Being Funny Leading Routines Getting in lock in position Flirting DHVs Natural Conversation Kino Being LOUD, especially on opening Talking Slowly Connecting and Building Rapport Group Theory and paying attention to everyone Isolation Time Bridging Always having fun You definately have to focus on things while your out, but if you have too many to focus on, it becomes hard. For me its simply hard to remember my routines, be able to have natural conversation off of what they are saying, and focus on a few nonverbals such as eye contact and kino and smile. So how do you all realistically get these things DOWN in field, so that they become a NATURAL part of you to where you no longer have to think about them? To where they are internalized? |
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| Author: | Charlie0 [ Mon Mar 16, 2009 2:46 am ] |
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You practice them individually until they become natural and you do them without thinking. Having a good frame will give you almost all of these. |
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| Author: | Fedster [ Mon Mar 16, 2009 2:50 am ] |
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My two cents: Maybe, just maybe, you should focus on having fun instead? You sound like you take your pick-up theory very seriously, but really man, you don't have to know all this stuff in and out, memorizing it like a student cramming for his exams. Just keep these things in the back of your head, go out and have fun! And every now and then, while you're out having FUN the idea of "yeah, right, lean back when you talk to a chick" or "Ah, this is an IOI" etc etc will pop-up in the back of your head and you can act on it. You don't have to know all this shit by heart man, just go out there with your knowledge and see how it works in the field! |
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