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Author:  tiemnao [ Sat Mar 07, 2009 12:27 am ]
Post subject:  Being called gay by a girl
So when a girl tells me I behave gay and very feminine and that she's not interested but her gay friends would love me etc., is it a good thing or a bad thing? Happened to me an hour ago, no idea what to think about it.

Anybody else had this? No idea if I really behave "gay" or not.
Author:  CaptRow [ Sat Mar 07, 2009 1:11 am ]
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being called gay can mean 1 of 2 things....she really thinks ur gay, which is bad. or it can be a shit test. she wants to see what ur gonna say. she expects you to say something like "im not gay!" dont do this.

tell her something like: "if i say yes, does that earn me points in ur book?" lol or "its a cover up, i use it to keep the girls like you away"
Author:  tiemnao [ Sat Mar 07, 2009 3:11 am ]
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I just played along and pretended to be outraged in the "gayest" way I could think of. I wasn't interested in her anyway, I was just chatting everybody up for practice.

But assuming it wasn't any kind of a shit test and she was actually honest - is it possible to behave "too feminine/gay" and would it hinder my efforts? I have no idea if I've been doing that or not. The gay guys I know seem to behave pretty much the same as everybody else.
Author:  Munroe (MUNROE) [ Sat Mar 07, 2009 9:07 am ]
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"I am gay. You and I should go home together and spoon in a non-sexual manner."
Author:  MikeHardey [ Sat Mar 07, 2009 9:09 am ]
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Very popular line in the game is to say: if i wasnt gay i would so hit on you.

Try changing it and saying something like: Oh yea, and by the way if i wasnt gay i would so hit one you. USE KINO as you say this.
Author:  noresiduals [ Sat Mar 07, 2009 12:14 pm ]
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first things first

BLADDAPLOW!! CHECK OUT MY COOL NEW SIG BITCH!!!

2nd. i think she really thinks ur gay cause u seem to not know if u seem gay urself which tells me u dont act like the manliest man around.

i dont even really know what kind of advice to offer you besides that you need to behave more like an asshole and get way more physical with women so they know you like pussy and not penis... i have NEVER pretended i was gay...said gay things....or claimed to be gay to put a girl off.... to me doing any of that shit is really lame i dont care how well it works for other guys.

if it were me which im glad to say would never happen in this lifetime i would have been PISSED. dude you need to retool ur entire game plan if ur coming off as a gay guy...
Author:  tiemnao [ Sat Mar 07, 2009 11:06 pm ]
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Happened to me again. A girl told me I behave gay today, and I used that to number-close her and invite her for a date at a gay bar. I must obviously be acting a bit gay because that's a second night in a row I'm hearing that. It was also my first number-close since forever.
Author:  Jaybot [ Sun Mar 08, 2009 10:56 am ]
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I use gayness as a key part of my game, you should make yourself super sexual because you can get away with it if you are slightly metro.

I know everyone is all about being alpha but you can IMO be an alpha effeminate and it works amazingly well. The guys leave you alone because they assume you are no risk (important where I come from 8 guys to every girl in a club) and it allows you to be completely sexual with the woman. Plus even if they do think you are gay after a few minutes in conversation they will have forgotten that, you will have bypassed the bitch shield and be building rapport whilst escalating.

Its early so this is a bit of a rugged outline but one day I will get off my ass and write up my style.
Author:  tiemnao [ Sun Mar 08, 2009 12:14 pm ]
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I use gayness as a key part of my game, you should make yourself super sexual because you can get away with it if you are slightly metro.

I know everyone is all about being alpha but you can IMO be an alpha effeminate and it works amazingly well.
Teach me my guru, for none of the usual PUA sources mentioned any of that ever. ;-) I am slightly metro, and I'm not trying to get away with it, I seem to be accidentally giving massive gay vibe naturally.
Author:  Maf-PbC [ Mon Mar 09, 2009 2:39 pm ]
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its a test....plain and simple unless your acting totally F'ed up. Like if one chick says it dont worry about it too much but if it becomes a pattern then you need to check up your attitude.

They test your masculinity and some girls literally get off to watching some dude try to prove hes a guy...all part of seeing how far the guy will go to prove himself.

Look watch:
Girl: Hey whats up gay tard?
Guy: Hey im not gay im talking to you, i get women always talking at me, i was just out the other night etc. (defense route).
Author:  desperate [ Mon Mar 09, 2009 5:12 pm ]
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I have some gay friends and girls go crazy over them (to the point where other guys have accused them of pretending to be gay just to get hot girls). One gay guy even had girls giving him BJs to try to get a reaction from him.

I don't know, there's something about the challenge of hooking up with a gay or possibly gay guy which can drive a girl crazy - it's kind of like the hard-to-get thing. I must admit now that I'm a girl and I did this myself once with a guy in a club who seemed a bit gay and totally disinterested in any of the girls who were there, naturally I took it upon myself to try to hook up with him. Well, to cut a short story shorter he turned out to be straight and one of the hottest lovers ever. However he disappeared a couple of days later which makes me think that perhaps he was already taken and only in town for the weekend or something, hence his lack of interest at the club.

Anyway I wouldn't go so far as to pretend you're actually gay - maybe just be a bit mysterious about it, to keep people guessing.

That girls actually tell you that they think you're feminine is a bit odd, though... I probably wouldn't do that to a guy if I thought there were any chance he could be straight.
Author:  HachiShiro [ Mon Mar 09, 2009 6:38 pm ]
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Has anyone tried amping up the gay hints as a push-pull?

Not actually claiming to be gay. Just teasing and hinting. I've noticed a lot of girls dig gay guys.
Author:  noresiduals [ Tue Mar 10, 2009 11:12 am ]
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for every straight girl that likes gay guys there's about 100% of them and also 100% of straight girls that like straight guys that wanna fuck...get this... straight guys. This is an entire discussion going on about how a straight guy can pretend to be gay to hook up with straight women. Am i the only person who doesnt get the logic? This is a shame... seriously im very metro. I just finished filing my nails, so it doesnt get more metro than that>> BUT I'm also in good shape, well groomed, and well-dressed. I've NEVER been thought of as gay by a chick. Why? Cause though i might be more clean than the average guy, I still act like a fuckin man. I still grab her ass and get caught looking at her tits, I still do manly ass shit. Why would any of you be cool with pretending you're gay. If you live in that area noone is gonna be impressed by that one guy who gets girls by pretending he's gay. Yeah some other guys will wanna try it but others will think its stupid and women might think its lame....

my 2 cents.
Author:  desperate [ Tue Mar 10, 2009 11:49 am ]
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Yeah, well, goes without saying that it's not the same type of girl that will go for the guy of ambiguous sexuality as opposed to the ass-grabbing guy... I guess it depends on the type of girl you're after... assuming guys have some preference in the matter...
Author:  tiemnao [ Tue Mar 10, 2009 6:14 pm ]
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Yeah, well, goes without saying that it's not the same type of girl that will go for the guy of ambiguous sexuality as opposed to the ass-grabbing guy... I guess it depends on the type of girl you're after... assuming guys have some preference in the matter...
I'm not pretending to be gay, I'm not even all that metro. Girls just seem to be getting some sort of gay vibe from me for reasons unknown. I'd love to hear from someone who gets it too and uses it to his advantage. I don't know in what way those two kinds of girls you mention differ, so no preference here.
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If you live in that area noone is gonna be impressed by that one guy who gets girls by pretending he's gay
Why would I care if other guys are impressed by what I do? The only people who matter here are me and the target.
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I still grab her ass and get caught looking at her tits, I still do manly ass shit.
I admit I'm not really into grabbing asses and staring at tits. Do PUAs do that stuff much?
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