30 views and no answers? I know someone must have wanted to say something
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| Author: | Chrosiris [ Fri Mar 06, 2009 2:08 am ] |
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This is one of my sticking points and intuitively I thought it might be one that doesn't get brought up very much. I have either heard or read that it's pretty counter-productive to do all this and get laid once. My goal is to be able to get out of a sexual relationship and still remain friends or even better; to still be looked at as a good guy with social value who a girl might recommend to her friend. What usually happens is that they get hung up, we remain somewhat friends, and then things fizzle out. That would be okay except when I see them in public there is a weird vibe. Either I can tell they still want me or that they are pissed at me and probably not saying good things about me. Not only that but they usually know people in your social circle. That can really mess up your game at a bar/club. Any wisdom? |
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| Author: | Chrosiris [ Sat Mar 14, 2009 7:51 am ] |
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30 views and no answers? I know someone must have wanted to say something
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| Author: | Chrosiris [ Wed Apr 08, 2009 7:24 am ] |
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Still? Seriously??? I'm getting into situations where I need these answers, if anyone has some input please let me know. |
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| Author: | Chrosiris [ Thu Jun 11, 2009 9:49 am ] |
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Okay, I'm done with this one... I guess I'll just be happy that I have a need for exit strategies. |
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| Author: | kcdclan [ Thu Jun 11, 2009 3:57 pm ] |
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Well that sound crazy. Just break it off and move on.who cares what she or her friends think. She is no a pop star that knows every one in your state... I'm sure there is a way though but i cant help on how... |
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| Author: | indianreaper [ Thu Jun 11, 2009 9:00 pm ] |
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If you're in a similar situation to me and the pool of girls are gonna know each other, like a college campus, don't just drop her. Her friends are a good source of additional ass and word will get out or she could cockblock you, even to girls she doesn't know if she is around. I find myself getting rejected always but girls also always still wanna be my friend. It isn't the exact same situation but I think I can adapt for it. Be sensitive but honest. Tell girls you enjoyed the time together but aren't looking for anything serious or permanent but you still wanna be friends. She will probably assume it is a blow off so you need to follow up. Do something to prove you still wanna be friends like setting up a platonic hang out. Talking online is another great way to get into the LJBF zone and prove you are serious about maintaining a friendship. You can talk slowly and unsexually about afc stuff. There is no eye contact or kino, no unwanted sexual tension online... AIM AFC talk creates awkward pauses but they can be ignored online. Tone down your game and within a short period the comfort will remain but the attraction will be gone. Then you can hope for some good connections with her friends. Good luck and let me know if you've tried this. |
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