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| Author: | czar1 [ Wed Mar 04, 2009 6:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | I don't know what I'm doing wrong? |
So I met this girl at a bar over the weekend and I sent her the text the next day asking her what she was doin Sat night. She sent back a playful reply about her going on google all night, until she then said she was going to philly. I told her to have fun. She then sends me a text and says Hi Ukraine at 2:02 am (since I told her I was Ukrainian during our convo at the bar). I then replied and asked how was philly? Didn't hear anything back from her that day. Now it's Monday and I text her wassup italia? She then says same the same shit and comes back with a text "I thought you don't text girls during the week." I must have said this at the bar, but I was pretty bombed and didn't remember. I then texted her back and said "I prolly don't remember much of what I said that night, but how about we grab lunch sometime so you can refresh my memory." Never heard back from her since. What did I do wrong? |
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| Author: | Castle [ Wed Mar 04, 2009 6:49 am ] |
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At first it sounds like she was playing a little game of cat and mouse with you. It seems like by your description that you had peaked her interest. Maybe she didn't like your latest text? You saying you were hammered while you talked to her (while true) could make her feel that she was just another girl to you and that your convo with her went in one ear and out the other. I think you should just call her and suggest a next date or meeting place sort of scenario. It's direct and if she shoots you down you can quickly move on and eliminate her as an option. I recently had this happen to me where the girl was being coy and making me put in too much leg work to get ahold of her. Move on if she continues her current ways...you know what they say about rewarding bad behaviour...just don't do it. -C |
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| Author: | czar1 [ Wed Mar 04, 2009 3:01 pm ] |
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I feel like if I try to reach out to her again, that I'll look needy. How do you think I should approach my next conversation or text with her? Thanks. |
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| Author: | CaptRow [ Thu Mar 05, 2009 2:39 pm ] |
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wait a while. then txt her something like "you will not believe wat happened to me today!" or "lemme get ur opinion on something". you wont seem needy if you chat her up without asking her out. when she seems interested.....then go for it and set a date. you got it dude. |
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