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Author:  laspit [ Sun Mar 01, 2009 6:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Changing a Past Friend into an F Buddy?

Backround Info:
This was a friend from Uni who i recently started chillin with. I think she had feelings for me back in school but I never pursued it. She messaged me like a 3 months ago and said we should hang out. I asked her for her number and didnt call for like a month until she reminded me that i didnt call her.

So she lives in my parents area and I kept it very laxed and said we should meet up since I was visiting the parents.
Anyways, did a bunch of bouncing with her, she showed IOI's so i flirted back.
She let me know a week ago that she broke up with her bf. (Go ahead point from here)

To keep it short, I was meeting up with friends for drink last night and I told her to come out and I made sure I picked her up so we could have some fun after if it went well.

Wellll, it did. After the bar we went to Nava cuz it was close by and on the dance floor we kissed and then danced a bit till i told her that we should bounce.

I couldnt take her back to my parents place so we went toa plaza....I could tell she was getting nervous..haha, it was jokes....(we are old friends too, so this might have been a little akward with her). But shes not in my immediate circle so its fine.

soooo, we fooled around in my backseat but she stopped me from moving any further which is understandable cuz we just changed from friends to physical...I told her she should come and visit me in mississauga

Question here is:
She seems pretty cool as in shes fooled around b4 and she told me her stories.....To avoid a potential relationship and keep this as a fun f buddy/cool chick to hang out with, what would you guys do...

two things I have as advantages in my pocket that can be used is:
1. She mentioned that her friend thinks Im hot, which makes her feel like she has an advantage over her friend.
2. She wanted to get with me back in school but she thought i wasnt attracted to her.

Your thoughts?

Author:  legendary63 [ Tue Mar 10, 2009 3:21 am ]
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Everything you're doing now seems to work. I mean, you don't call everyday like a BF and you see her sometimes. She said her friend was interested in you, which is true...so now "her friend" (as in she) is also interested. Go for it dude, but just don't act uptight if see rejects the idea or else you'll ruin the friendship.

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