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| Author: | justjess [ Thu Feb 26, 2009 5:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | HB9 HOODRAT holding off on sex...trying to be wifey HELP! |
So I met a HB9 at the club about a month ago, approached her confidently, playful neg and then told i thot she was the bombest girl in the club. she was eating it up starting to blush and all. i got the number and followed up that night. we met up 2 weeks later at the same club, she left her friends and we hung out for a couple hours, i was just comfort building the entire time. this is where i blew it because i came off as too high value (didnt lie) compared to her. she saw me as great LTR material. we met up the next day and went barhopping and got plastered, she ends up coming back to my place for the night. she was only willing to makeout which was fine i guess, she said shes not a whore and put out the first night (my game is weak). i was ok with that since it was the first night. we met up the next week and she ends up spending the night again both sat and sunday only making out. at this point i was getting irritated and i pushed for sex both nights but she said she was on her period and i dindt want to deal with that. this girl is 24 and i am 21 and she knows my age she said all her friends date young?? i kno she lives in a poor area and has nothing really going for her. she has also payed for me much more than i have for her so i kno shes not using me. i just talked to her on the phone shes implying shes trying to hold off on sex and makes jokes that shes always on her period. i was freezing her out telling her to introduce me to her friends at least or something and she was getting defensive. she said that we can just watch movies and hang out, its not all about sex so i mentioned she could do my laundry and make me food as a joke and she said shed do my laundry and iron my clothes and everything in a serious manner. Basically this girl is trying to be my wifey because shes poor and im not so shes trying to hold off on sex because she knows that the only thing shes got left.. Wat do i need to do to break this barrier so she finally puts out? |
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| Author: | LEPRECHAUN [ Thu Feb 26, 2009 5:24 am ] |
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Sounds to me like you should give her the ROCKS VS. GOLD speech... ROCKS VERSUS GOLD SPEECH: A speech a man gives a woman he's dating when she stops or is not having sex with him. "Women in a relationship want rocks (diamonds), while men seek gold. Rocks for a woman, are wonderful nights out, romantic attention, and emotional connection. Gold for a man is sex. If you give a woman only gold (sex), or a man just rocks (nights out, romantic attention, emotional connection), neither will be satisfied. There must be an exchange." If she thinks that she can get a "free ride" from you and not at least give it up four times a week... I would open the door and look her dead in the eyes and say... NEEEXXT... This is where she should make her dramatic exit saying that you only want sex, blah blah blah... |
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| Author: | AcerGuild [ Thu Feb 26, 2009 1:37 pm ] |
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Sorry to pi*&& on your bonfire mate but this chic and you have totally different expectations. She's looking for something serious, so she's hoping you will date her and be like a BF and she will sleep with you when she feels ready that you're 'giving' enough. This girl likes you a lot in more than just wanting you to sleep with her. You just want to sleep with her. Is that all you want? If it is you should Next this one because you two want different things. If you only want casual, ONS etc then if your Da Real Man you'll go after the girls who want the same. Just sayin' thats all cos I've BTDT and got into a mess - the girl got hurt and my rep was negged all round college because she told all the girls I was a user.. Go for girls who just want fun too if that's all you want - there are loads of girls who dont want a BF. |
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