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| Author: | robothouse2008 [ Tue Feb 10, 2009 9:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Day game help. |
I'm definitely a night guy, But when situations arise like today (70 degrees in February) I would like to go downtown and game a bit. I was thinking more direct openers for the day, because I might not have as much time to build comfort, but idk... any help would be wonderful. |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Tue Feb 10, 2009 10:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Day game help. |
Quote: I'm definitely a night guy, But when situations arise like today (70 degrees in February) I would like to go downtown and game a bit. I was thinking more direct openers for the day, because I might not have as much time to build comfort, but idk... any help would be wonderful.
"I just wanted to come over here and see what you are about. I'm xxx.""I know this is completely random, but I had to come over here and meet you. I'm xxx." These are the default direct openers that I use, when I'm not doing anything situational. |
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| Author: | robothouse2008 [ Wed Feb 11, 2009 2:19 am ] |
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Thanks J.. Yeah that's basically what I did today. I found out I still had a bit of AA.. That was fun getting rid of that though, so the day wasn't a loss at all. |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Wed Feb 11, 2009 4:38 am ] |
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Quote: Thanks J.. Yeah that's basically what I did today. I found out I still had a bit of AA.. That was fun getting rid of that though, so the day wasn't a loss at all.
Awesome! When you get out of the habit AA has a way of sneaking back up on us.
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| Author: | R.G. [ Wed Feb 11, 2009 5:03 pm ] |
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I've recently been doing a lot of daygame with friends. It's really easy to get the number. I was actually with one of my wings yesterday in town and we opened 30+ sets, some really funny ones. He made me open a chinese woman with children. HAHA! I ended up talking to her about little girls who like boys' toys for ages then had to excuse myself out the set because I didn't want to escalate hahaha. You don't need any routines or tricks. Just open with something natural and then start with some comfort (if you've studied body language, all you have to do is offer a frame and body language that conveys congruence, trust and comfort), then talk to her about stuff that interests YOU. Like you would with friends. Eventually (usually 7 mins) you'll all be laughing and you'll get their number. I've videoed a lot of my daygame recently, so breaking it down this seems to be what I do: 1. Just go up to them without any thoughts in your head and say the first thing that comes into your head. This will be something situational, perhaps something you see or hear. 2. Make it personal. I #closed a two-set yesterday at a café - they were drawing some art or something, so I just said the first thing which came into my head which was 'Nice art, I like the blue. Do you always do art?' So open, then make it personal. 3. Fluff talk. Fluff = comfort = trust. And comfort is the name of the game in daygame. Clichéd questions like 'so where you guys from? I bet you're from Lithuania...'. You ask the question and add your own spin. 4. Time constraint and hook. Say you can't stay for long (give a genuine reason if possible), then sit down with them, or change body language to get in set. 5. Romantic/attraction conversation threads. Make some, talk about some, so they associate you with that sort of topic. 6. See where the set takes you. If you think you can insta-date then don't time constraint in the first place, if you think you can't then just talk to them until you think they're ready to give you their number AND will be likely to respond positively to future contact. |
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| Author: | R.G. [ Wed Feb 11, 2009 5:07 pm ] |
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Oh, and avoid crazy shit you might do in nightgame when you're in state...for instance the other day I met some blonde girl who goes to Cambridge University in a book shop café and things were going really well, like escalating further than normal day game (in the space of about 2 mins), then I took her muffin and she told me not to eat it, which I did. For most girls, normally this would work but she got pretty pissed haha. I had to pay for a whole new muffin!!!!! £1.65!!!!!!!! I think my mates were being a bit too bait about the video camera too haha. |
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| Author: | robothouse2008 [ Wed Feb 11, 2009 10:38 pm ] |
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Thanks for the tips Rafiel. |
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