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| Author: | faiz1 [ Sun Feb 01, 2009 7:27 am ] |
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k so, i m kinda new to pick up, i has helped me a lot with being able to continue conversations and attracting women. however, im stumped when it comes to gaming a waitress :S me and my buddies go to the same restaurant usually, and there is a girl i would like to get to know, but i have no idea.help pls. |
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| Author: | LEPRECHAUN [ Sun Feb 01, 2009 8:34 am ] |
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There was this strategy in "The Game" where Ross Jeffries used "Condiment Anchoring" on a waitress. I would like to share that part of the book with you all here today... *** CONDIMENT ANCHORING *** SAID TO A WAITRESS: YOU: "What would you say if I told you that I teach people how to use mind control to attract any person they desire?" HER: "Get out of here." YOU: "Yes, it's true. I could make you fall in love with any person at this table." HER: "And how's that? With mind control?" She was skeptical, but bordering on curious. YOU: "Let me ask you something. When you're really attracted to somebody, how do you know? In other words, what signals do you get from yourself, inside, that allow you to realize"—and here you lower your voice, slowly pronouncing each word—"you're . . . really... attracted... to . . . this guy?" The purpose of the question is to make the waitress feel the emotion of attraction in your presence, and thus associate those feelings with your face. HER: She'll think about it for a moment. "Well, I guess I get a funny feeling in my stomach, like butterflies." YOU: Put your hand out, palm up, in front of your stomach. "Yes, and I bet that the more attracted you become, the more those butterflies rise up from your stomach"—begin slowly raising your hand to the level of your heart- "until your face begins to flush . . . like it is right now." (That's anchoring. It's when you associate a feeling—like attraction— with a touch or a gesture. Now, every time you raise your hand like that, she gets attracted to you.) After a few minutes the waittress's eyes should begin to glaze over. Use this opportunity to toy with her mercilessly. Raise your hands like an elevator from your stomach to your face every few seconds. YOU: "With your boyfriend, were you attracted right away?" snap your fingers, freeing her from her trance. "Or did it take time?" HER: "Well, we broke up, but it took a while. We were friends first." YOU: "Isn't it so much better, though, when you just feel that sense of attraction"—move your hand up like an elevator and her eyes will begin to glaze again—"right away for someone." Point to yourself. YOU: "It's incredible, isn't it?" HER: "Yes," she agrees, completely oblivious to her other tables. YOU: "What was wrong with your boyfriend?" HER: "He was too immature." YOU: Seize the opportunity. "Well, you should date more mature men." HER: "I was just thinking that, about you, as we were talking." She'll giggle. YOU: "I bet that when you first came to the table, I was the last person you thought you'd be attracted to." HER: "It's strange," she said, "because you're not my usual type." YOU: Suggest you two get together for coffee when she isn't working, she should jump at the opportunity to give you her phone number. YOU: Let out a loud, victorious laugh. "Well, your other customers are probably getting angry. But before you go, I'll tell you what. Why don't we take all those good feelings you're having right now"—raise your hands again—"and put them into this pack of sugar"—pick up a sugar pack and rub your raised hand on it—"so that you can carry them around with you all day." Hand her the sugar pack. She'll put it in her apron and walk away, still beet red. That, is condiment anchoring. After you are gone, the sugar pack will remind her of the positive emotions she felt with you. |
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| Author: | Munroe (MUNROE) [ Sun Feb 01, 2009 7:04 pm ] |
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Learning how to consistently game a waitress is a waste of mental effort unless you're already awesome. There are so many more useful things you can work on right now. Just flirt around with her. Something is wrong when the only other option given requires NLP. |
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| Author: | faiz1 [ Mon Feb 02, 2009 3:25 am ] |
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thanks for the ideas guys, and i wanna try to not use nlp alone, also, im not sure if nlp will work on everyone:S but ill keep flirting and see how it goes. thanks guys |
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