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| Author: | Nighthawk_ [ Sat Jan 31, 2009 2:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How long does attraction-phase take? |
Hey I read the "Mystery method" but i have big sticking points in A2-Female to male interesst . Could you tell me how long this phase should take and whats the best things to do? How many routines/stories should i tell before going into qualifieing her ? thanks a lot! |
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| Author: | Grape [ Sat Jan 31, 2009 2:21 pm ] |
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The attraction phase usually takes about a couple of minutes if done well. You automatically catch her attention as a hot guy within the first 10-20 seconds, then you show off some personality, get her to like you, and you also convey interest. After those minutes, you can either continue to stay where you are, build more attraction, or escalate to comfort. Remember, this isn't rocket sciene. <3 Grape |
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| Author: | Ezo [ Tue Feb 03, 2009 5:59 pm ] |
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If you are talking pure A2 then maybe 3-5 minutes... But I usually slip in some DHV spikes even later if I can do it without it being too obvious. The borders between the phases are not absolute. |
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| Author: | Stormy [ Tue Feb 03, 2009 6:28 pm ] |
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I've got a thing or two to say about this. If you follow Mystery Method, it should almost NEVER take longer than 20 minutes, and it should usually be shorter than that. Attraction happens fast. As (I believe) Style said, if you don't know what you're supposed to be doing, you're probably supposed to be in A3. Lots of people get stuck in A2 because they're addicted to the IOIs, and because they're afraid of getting out of that comfortable entertainer/dancing monkey frame. If you run natural game, though, you really don't *have* an attraction phase. You just assume attraction. That's how I roll. |
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| Author: | jade1 [ Thu Feb 05, 2009 7:11 pm ] |
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After she gives you 3 IOI's move into A3. In A2, you can amp attraction with - cocky funny, push/pull, DHV stories, and a neg. |
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| Author: | Nighthawk_ [ Thu Feb 05, 2009 8:36 pm ] |
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Thank you so much guys, thats great help! I was kind of dancing monkey because of telling to much stories etc.. but i will change this now! Thanks again |
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| Author: | Munroe (MUNROE) [ Thu Feb 05, 2009 9:13 pm ] |
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Does it really fucking matter? You're going to turn into a social robot if you look at it this deeply. Attraction is sometimes fast, and its sometimes slow. Learn to enjoy it for its own sake and stop worrying about this, and things will usually go better for you. |
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| Author: | Nighthawk_ [ Fri Feb 06, 2009 9:56 am ] |
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Quote: Does it really fucking matter? You're going to turn into a social robot if you look at it this deeply.
I think it does matter! Because if you dont manage to do it right you will not get to what you want. Attraction is sometimes fast, and its sometimes slow. Learn to enjoy it for its own sake and stop worrying about this, and things will usually go better for you. It is not about turning into a social robot and definitly i will enjoy this all but if i come over like a dancing monkey i will never get a girl. |
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| Author: | Munroe (MUNROE) [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 7:00 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: Does it really fucking matter? You're going to turn into a social robot if you look at it this deeply.
I think it does matter! Because if you dont manage to do it right you will not get to what you want. Attraction is sometimes fast, and its sometimes slow. Learn to enjoy it for its own sake and stop worrying about this, and things will usually go better for you. It is not about turning into a social robot and definitly i will enjoy this all but if i come over like a dancing monkey i will never get a girl. Successfully moving from so-called phase to phase is based almost entirely on interpersonal calibration, not structural games and time spans. Worrying about being in the attraction phase for too long isn't going to do anything but make you come across as weird and uncalibrated. When attraction is truly happening, it moves on its own. Take all this Mystery Method advice with a grain of salt. There is no shortage of inexperienced males who suddenly think they are good with women just because they can explain it on paper. |
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| Author: | waqmaster [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 9:20 pm ] |
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So after all that out of the way, what comes after A3? its been a while since i was last on pua forum lol chears guys. |
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