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| Author: | JB2009 [ Thu Jan 29, 2009 7:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | went out with a girl tonight... went good but not great |
hey so I met a girl a few weeks back while I was working, started text back and forth, she seemed in to me, lots of "awws" and "lol" or jokingly calling me a jerk, along those lines. I said something like I've heard a lot of strange things about girls like you (after she told me what ethnicity she was), obviously shes asking "like what??" I wouldnt tell her I said, I'll give you a chance to prove what I've heard wrong then! and set up a meeting which was tonight messaged her today about us meeting up tonight, shes like aww where are we going? So I knew she was for sure interested. we just went to a place for dessert I had a good time with her, she gave off a lot of what I consider IOI's, playing with her hair, fidgeting with the napkin, etc. busted on her quite a bit on whatever she was talking about, got a little kino going, like tickling her for making fun of me a bit too. she responded well. did a couple games with her, 5 question, cube game. did some cocky and funny stuff, which generally got the eye roll, laugh, and a "oh whatever" I did the trust test too but she didnt fully pass it, no hand squeezing back, but she did follow it and willingly give me her hands. I told her she failed it, she says "why??" I just said I guess I cant trust you fully yet I felt comfortable with her and I feel it was mutual. she was telling me lots about her family and how she goes to church etc shes a really down to earth girl and we're going to hang out again. I was hoping to get a kiss from her but all I ended up with was a hug ... we vibe quite well, she was a little sick sooo possibly she didnt want to kiss b/c of that, not sure, might have just been shy about it anyway she says she'll text me tomorrow any tips on the next get together, or things I could have done different? |
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| Author: | Mr. Natural [ Thu Jan 29, 2009 6:25 pm ] |
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my first questions is how did you know she did not want a kiss? did you go in for one? |
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| Author: | JB2009 [ Fri Jan 30, 2009 4:14 am ] |
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When I said goodnight to her I went for a hug, and she let go right after, instead of holding there for a bit longer, ie if she wanted me to kiss her |
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| Author: | madals [ Fri Jan 30, 2009 1:41 pm ] |
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Quote: When I said goodnight to her I went for a hug, and she let go right after, instead of holding there for a bit longer, ie if she wanted me to kiss her
Dont wait till the end of a date to kiss. Its akward because its expected, there is pressure to do it and therefore it isnt natural.
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| Author: | JB2009 [ Fri Jan 30, 2009 8:33 pm ] |
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Thats a good point, thanks. Next time we go out I'll keep that in mind |
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| Author: | Mr. Natural [ Mon Feb 02, 2009 10:35 pm ] |
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Even more than that is to escalate the kino throughout the night so the kiss flows naturally. Every opportunity you get, you should be touching her. Start out with non-threatening touches such as brushing her arms, lightly tapping her, and as the night progresses hold her hand, touch her shoulder, brush her hair. If you do it right and read her IOI's a kiss should almost naturally flow. |
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