Hey Rebster, im sure ur life will change just by joining this forum, but u must walk the ropes.... first thing there is no magic card there are many elements to the game.. there is no such thing is a perfect appraoch, Pikcu up is like dance its alive, and u must imrovise to suit the task...... if ur just starting out id reccomend first reiding summit more structured, and use this forum for more direct questions, the thing i reid first that set me out is this link here...
http://www.seductionbase.com/
Its good cus its structured, and it seems a lot to remember, but once u reid more of it, u will just start to see the bigger picture,
As for ur direct question, its good your friendly and talk and all, but arent everyone else???..... Church teaches great morales but it bores the fuck out of me!!!........wether its good or bad, dont matter.... if u want a girl to be interested in u... well u need to be interesting, u need to talk about interesting stuff.... u need to behave interesting,... Frame/Charisma!.... ppl have a frame, or they are wallpaper, all of what u will reid on that link will fit into a frame, your confidence, ur humour, ur body language, how u dress, to what u say and how u say it....
Look at ppl u know are good with women, they give of an energy.. Good luck in ur Journey... Hunt on. Deus.