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| Author: | MelvinWhite [ Thu Jan 22, 2009 4:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | trouble hooking 'em lately |
at a few colleges parties this weekend, and i couldn't quite get to the point where they're thinking "this guy is different/cool and i wanna stick around". now, it's not like they walked away or anything; the conversations were just getting me nowhere and i don't think they were invested in me. i was doing some teasing but it didn't have the desired effect. thinking back now i probably should have just started doing some kino/routines/games from the get-go since straight up talking wasn't working. any other backup plans for sparking the initial interest? |
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| Author: | super natural [ Thu Jan 22, 2009 10:14 pm ] |
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you have to remember social circle game like college game is that the girls will talk to you unlike a bar where you would have to either have some value or attraction first. Your better off to have a normal convo and look for commonallities then once you have rapport starting doing a little attraction like banter, teasing, cold reads ect. Its a little different than night game. |
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| Author: | backdoor man [ Sat Jan 24, 2009 2:03 am ] |
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Be charismatic. Have a fire in your eyes, and pay them the right amount of attention. Easier said than done: but make yourself the target. - hint at an inner conflict within you - hint at an exciting lifestyle - for the love of god, try and surround yourself with friends, always - show scarcity - if you feel you are getting stagnant/awkward, take off for a bit - be mysterious and tantalizing I met this HB9 once at a club. Went to have a smoke with her, and she asked me what I did. I told her I worked for the government. Shes like "doing what?" I said I couldn't tell her. And I never told her, but I didn't blow her off either. Just was mysterious and inviting. F-closed later on. |
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| Author: | Munroe (MUNROE) [ Sun Jan 25, 2009 2:02 am ] |
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I go to a lot of the same bars over and over. Even though I used the exact same lines, in the exact same way, I didn't have real consistency for a long time. I have a tendency of coming in with too much energy. I do really off the wall stuff, that's just how I like to interact with people. As a result, some nights I am the Lord, and I hook every set. Other nights people think I'm weird, and nothing seems to hook. If you know you have great social ability, then consistency is mostly a matter of calibrating to the energy levels of the room. Once you are calibrated and in set, you can guide people to the energy levels that you want. |
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