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| Author: | raphsel [ Fri Jan 09, 2009 4:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | conversation interrupted |
Hey guys, here is my problem: I have a best friend :p. You know the guy you can say anyting to that will laugh at all your jokes, ALL... that's him. Best guy ever met! BUT... when I'm talking in a group, aspecially when there are girls... he practically AL-WAYS interupts me and the girls will AL-WAYS give attention to him. One of the biggest reasons is he has a better and clearer voice, not what he says... the reasoni think this, is I've tried to interrupt him, but it doesn't work even with girls that are more attracted to me. If anyone has a better solution than ignoring or leaving him or talking about it with him... |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Fri Jan 09, 2009 5:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: conversation interrupted |
Quote: Hey guys, here is my problem:
Ouch! This makes it tough but I really don't see any other option other than deal with it, talk to him about it, or leave him at home. I know that's not what you wanted to hear but those are the options. I have a best friend :p. You know the guy you can say anyting to that will laugh at all your jokes, ALL... that's him. Best guy ever met! BUT... when I'm talking in a group, aspecially when there are girls... he practically AL-WAYS interupts me and the girls will AL-WAYS give attention to him. One of the biggest reasons is he has a better and clearer voice, not what he says... the reasoni think this, is I've tried to interrupt him, but it doesn't work even with girls that are more attracted to me. If anyone has a better solution than ignoring or leaving him or talking about it with him... If you are using something like Mystery Method, and the idea in the first few minutes is to ignore the target she is very vulnerable. It's easy actually for someone like this to step in and give her attention, and then get the girl. She's craving attention and he gives it to her, thus she likes him. Very simple, but crippling to us. If he keeps interrupting you and preventing you from getting the girl then you have a problem! Honestly, the easiest thing is to go out by yourself. I'm sure he means nothing by it and doesn't realizing how much this is hurting your "game." GOOD LUCK |
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| Author: | griff_199 [ Fri Jan 09, 2009 5:12 pm ] |
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hmm seems to me like he is a clear AMOG wether its natural or hes doing it on purpose i have no idea. But if i was you id go for the isolation as soon as possible. If hes being really loud or is focusing all his attention on one girl use a simple line like "God we cant get a word in here...lets go somewhere wher we can talk" then lead her off by her hand. If hes addressing the whole group roll of the set open annother then if he comes to join your new set you can go back to the old one...if not just stay in the new set your in wich will give you 2 possible outcomes 1-You will get a new target 2-The other target will get jelous and come and open you. If he interupts you and its starting to REALLY piss you off you could bust he balls on it by saying to the target "Why is this creep allways interupting? i think hes one of "Them" lads" BUT thats ONLY if nothing else will work. Using the term "Them lads" will make her think Whats one of THEM lads? and add a element of mystery to you. |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Fri Jan 09, 2009 5:16 pm ] |
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Quote: hmm seems to me like he is a clear AMOG wether its natural or hes doing it on purpose i have no idea. But if i was you id go for the isolation as soon as possible.
Normally, I don't interject on others opinions but.. If you DLV your wingman you DLV yourself! If hes being really loud or is focusing all his attention on one girl use a simple line like "God we cant get a word in here...lets go somewhere wher we can talk" then lead her off by her hand. If hes addressing the whole group roll of the set open annother then if he comes to join your new set you can go back to the old one...if not just stay in the new set your in wich will give you 2 possible outcomes 1-You will get a new target 2-The other target will get jelous and come and open you. If he interupts you and its starting to REALLY piss you off you could bust he balls on it by saying to the target "Why is this creep allways interupting? i think hes one of "Them" lads" BUT thats ONLY if nothing else will work. Using the term "Them lads" will make her think Whats one of THEM lads? and add a element of mystery to you. The girls know you two are together. Whether he's an intentional wing or not he's with you for the night. Busting on him doesn't make you look any better. What kind of friend does that? Is what the girls are thinking. Never ever DLV your wingman. |
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| Author: | raphsel [ Fri Jan 09, 2009 6:25 pm ] |
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First I wanna thank you all. When I learned about pick-up I learned about being alpha everywhere you go, and I thought: why only being alpha when you're going out for some game... Be alpha everywhere you go. BUT the question is: can you be alpha when there is allready a natural one in the group, oubviously taking the frame? And the actual situation I have, and that's the reason I started this topic, is how to becaume more alpha than the one who already has the frame, because I can't change the set... because those are my friends. In fact it might easy to think: just be the beta-male and don't worry, but I wanna try to find how to change it. |
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