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Author:  tony09uk [ Sun Jan 04, 2009 2:09 am ]
Post subject:  Field report 4of 5 (I’m stuck)
This is the first time I have been in the field since I started reading about what it takes to be a PUA…. And I really need some help :(

I used the “I need a females opinion. My friend is going on a date and he’s really nervous, he wants to impress the girl, what should he do on the date?” thing, she then said what he should wear. Which I responded with “Cool, but where should he take her if he is to really impress her?” All she would say is “it depends on the girl” I tried to push it a bit she seemed to be loosing interest.

How could I have kept that flowing?
Author:  jade1 [ Sun Jan 04, 2009 3:46 pm ]
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Props for having the balls to even approach :) that's half the battle.

From what you said, what you did was perfect BUT..you didn't use a FTC (false time constraint).

"Hey guys, I gotta get back to my friends, but...."

Also, make sure you aren't leaning into them. Make sure to stand straight, and If anything, turn your body away from them rather than into them.
Author:  Stormy [ Sun Jan 04, 2009 4:41 pm ]
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Don't use opinion openers. And if you do, get off them and go to something else quickly. Watch what Chief does here:

example-of-opinion-opener-from-my-workshop-vt35361.html

Honestly, I think you're just stifled. Do you feel nervous when you're doing this? That'll mess you up.
Author:  tony09uk [ Mon Jan 05, 2009 7:02 pm ]
Post subject:  yes and yes
Yes, I think I was leaning in (but i did realsise after I had done it) and yes I was kinda nervous using it :shock: but after I saw it went ok I think I will use it again.

Im getting some saying use canned stuff and others saying, stay away from it. I think for me, at the moment, I need to be somewhere inbetween - some canned and some situational.

I dont remember using a false time constraint, but will start getting them in there as they seem to be effective and its somthing everyone in the community aggrees on.
Author:  jade1 [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 7:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: yes and yes
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Yes, I think I was leaning in (but i did realsise after I had done it) and yes I was kinda nervous using it :shock: but after I saw it went ok I think I will use it again.

Im getting some saying use canned stuff and others saying, stay away from it. I think for me, at the moment, I need to be somewhere inbetween - some canned and some situational.

I dont remember using a false time constraint, but will start getting them in there as they seem to be effective and its somthing everyone in the community aggrees on.
Yeah, it's good to know in the back of your mind that you will have something to say (canned), but it's also good to know that you don't have to rely on it (natural). All about finding your balance and what YOU feel comfortable doing.

Happy sarging, brother :)
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