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| Author: | Eminem [ Thu Dec 18, 2008 7:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Until my overal game gets alot better I have this one proble |
I don't know how to invite a girl to do something with me. I'm pretty sure I make it sound too boring and straight foward (do you want to do X) Then if she can't or won't I ask essentially the same thing again. I think I need to spice it up or change what I'm inviting her to do.. IDK Obviously ideally my game would be on the level where she would say yes the first time I know I'm not totally hopeless cuz about 50/50 I get her with me |
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| Author: | Munroe (MUNROE) [ Fri Dec 19, 2008 3:43 am ] |
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WTF dude. Is this girl on some sort of pedestal? Do you feel like see is way up there and you're way down here? Guess what? Its all in your head. I'll repeat that: ITS ALL IN YOUR HEAD. You're even. She doesn't have more value than you, so why are you stressing so much? You're coming from a mindset of scarcity and not abundance. "OH please go out with me. If only I could come up with something exciting enough, she would go out with me. If I was more high value, then maybe I could increase my ratio to 60% or better!" Why don't you come up with something that YOU want to do, and then just invite her? In fact, one of the best mindsets to be coming from is simply a desire to have fun. Ask her out again, except this time do it from a frame of abundance and not scarcity. |
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| Author: | Eminem [ Fri Dec 19, 2008 4:13 am ] |
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ok bro. thanks.. |
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| Author: | Munroe (MUNROE) [ Fri Dec 19, 2008 5:01 am ] |
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Whoops, sorry I didn't give you a magic pill. |
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| Author: | VSaon [ Fri Dec 19, 2008 5:26 am ] |
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Yeah dude, peep the Inner Game section. There's good stuff |
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| Author: | Eminem [ Fri Dec 19, 2008 9:16 pm ] |
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ok. I will. The "in state" thing sometimes only happens for me when life is going all good. I can't always get my mood ridiculously high when im just havin an "ok" day.. but i guess since its a "game" and an interest of mine, it should be fun and if its not I need to rethink why im doing it. i know its what I want but it needs to be fun.. thats what we are sayin here basically right? |
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| Author: | Stormy [ Fri Dec 19, 2008 10:49 pm ] |
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"Hey, I'm going to X tonight. Wanna come?" Works pretty well. |
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