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Author:	afchampion [ Wed Dec 10, 2008 7:42 am ]
Post subject:	first date kiss
Im new to the whole PUA thing but I had a question about something I've been doing for the past few years on dates. Whenever i go on proper dates I have made it a rule to neglect to kiss the girl at the end of the date. The reasoning behind this was that im at a point in my life where im not overly excited about a kiss and figure it will help my overall game because the girl will be curious as to why I didnt try and help future attraction. Similarly to when a girl will scurry out at the end of a date its both frustrating and intriguing. What is ur guys opinion about this? lame plan i should soon drop? or a good idea?

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Author:	sandman808 [ Thu Dec 11, 2008 12:14 pm ]
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the whole idea of a "kiss at the end of the date" is AFC and outdated. It'll just build up tension and awkwardness, basically DLVing yourself. Should build kino throughout the date: escalate and then kiss her whenever it feels right.

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Author:	Munroe (MUNROE) [ Fri Dec 12, 2008 7:51 am ]
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I imagine you're kissing them on the cheek or head or whatever. I wouldn't do it unless it really felt right, especially if you don't know where you stand with them. If you're going to do it, why wait until the end of the night? That's lame and awkward. If you're building kino correctly, you should be able to do it way earlier in the night, and do it comfortably. If you're unsure, here is the rule: Giving her a kiss at the end of the date is a direct IOI from you. Showing direct interest in a girl will lower your value to her unless, a: she is already attracted to you (You're past the A1 phase), or b: you are perceived as being of higher value (an easy example would be a celebrity).

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