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| Author: | Rocker [ Sun Dec 07, 2008 6:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Keeping a girl around without her becoming a girlfriend |
I enjoy hanging around this chick and of course fucking her brains out, but she is getting too attached.. I let her come over like every other day and she has been at my house for the last week straight. I am having a good time, but she is starting to fall in love with me. I just got out of a long relationship and I am not ready for a girlfriend right now. Any advice on distancing myself to have her come over once or twice per week without breaking her heart and or pissing her off? |
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| Author: | Ray Charles [ Sun Dec 07, 2008 7:20 am ] |
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Just claim to be busy and distance yourself from her a little, say you've got a work project and need to be alone for the next few days etc. Also dont bring up a conversation that might lead to a discussion about bf's or gf's. At the beggining of the night, let her know that she can only stay for an hour or so because you need to go visit your mum or grandma or some shit like that. Make EVERYTHING a time restraint and see how that works for ya. |
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| Author: | J_J_Okocha [ Sun Dec 07, 2008 5:13 pm ] |
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why dont you just tell her straight up that u arent looking for a relationship at the moment, but if u were it would definitely be with her(lie!). and that u want to keep her around(basically so u can keep fucking her). |
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| Author: | AceofSpades07 [ Sun Dec 07, 2008 8:14 pm ] |
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ok first of all if i were you i definitly not lie to her. It might work for a while but not a solution to your problem itll just buy you time. Not only that eventually shes going to smell a rat and bust you and you dont want to get the reputation of being a liar cause in a girls eyes theres nothing worse. I would say that honesty is the best policy and tell her you dont want to have a gf. Remember in order to get the girl you have to be willing to lose her. |
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| Author: | Rocker [ Mon Dec 08, 2008 2:49 am ] |
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Thanks for the tips, I have been honest with her and told her from the beginning I do not want to have a girlfriend right now. She is girlfriend material, but I don't want girlfriend material right now, I just want to be single and have fun. Unfortunately I sound like a piece of shit when I say this to her. |
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| Author: | Epicurus [ Mon Dec 15, 2008 3:07 am ] |
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The best strategy is: 1. Drastically reduce the time you spend with her. THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT. Anything more than 1x per week = lead to relationship. 1x per week could also be too much depending on your level of attraction. 2. Be completely honest with her. She has to know that you're only FB's. If you're good enough in bed, she'll come back for more anyway. 3. If she's into a relationship, find somebody else to mess around with and end it with her. You'll be more of a creep to keep her hanging on than to end it with her. |
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| Author: | R.G. [ Mon Dec 15, 2008 5:51 pm ] |
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Quote: Just claim to be busy and distance yourself from her a little, say you've got a work project and need to be alone for the next few days etc.
NOOOOO^ Don't do that. Whoever said that is a complete retard. That will only make her want you more!!! It's just a freeze out/false time constraint.Also dont bring up a conversation that might lead to a discussion about bf's or gf's. At the beggining of the night, let her know that she can only stay for an hour or so because you need to go visit your mum or grandma or some shit like that. Make EVERYTHING a time restraint and see how that works for ya. I have a similar sticking point at the moment so can't help much. |
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| Author: | Sutko [ Thu Dec 18, 2008 4:14 am ] |
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It may be too late by now, but I find that if you're straight up from the start... "I'm not looking for anything serious right now... I've just got so many things on the go right now that I hardly have enough time for me, let alone to dedicate to a relationship..." It won't always result in a repeat customer, but when it does, it's pretty solid. Women get mad no matter what, when they get clingy. If you're able to say "I have never been anything but honest with you", and they know it, you're in the clear (after she calms down). Good luck bro. |
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| Author: | Ray Charles [ Thu Dec 18, 2008 6:56 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: Just claim to be busy and distance yourself from her a little, say you've got a work project and need to be alone for the next few days etc.
NOOOOO^ Don't do that. Whoever said that is a complete retard. That will only make her want you more!!! It's just a freeze out/false time constraint.Also dont bring up a conversation that might lead to a discussion about bf's or gf's. At the beggining of the night, let her know that she can only stay for an hour or so because you need to go visit your mum or grandma or some shit like that. Make EVERYTHING a time restraint and see how that works for ya. I have a similar sticking point at the moment so can't help much. And i disagree, it might for a little while but she would just get used to it. Why are we still posting in this thread, the deed is done. |
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| Author: | AceofSpades07 [ Fri Dec 19, 2008 12:28 am ] |
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Rushy, if you really are 15 im just curious as to how you think you know so much?[/quote] |
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| Author: | Ray Charles [ Sat Dec 20, 2008 6:57 am ] |
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Quote: Rushy, if you really are 15 im just curious as to how you think you know so much? [/quote]Cause im a smartass ;D |
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| Author: | AceofSpades07 [ Sat Dec 20, 2008 11:43 pm ] |
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haha point taken |
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