You don't necessarily need to spot them. I don't, anymore. If someone were to watch me in a set, they'd probably count ten or so congruence tests that I fail, at least verbally. There are some "classic" congruence tests that you're likely to come up against, and there are a bunch of stock responses for them, but they can take any form.
The most important thing is that you maintain your state and don't let anything the girl says bother you. If the congruence test comes in the form of a disqualification, for example, there are a hundred ways to deal with it in terms of outer game.
One that pops up a lot when gaming MILFs is:
MILF: "I think I'm too old for you." (or some variant)
My stock response:
Me: "I hope you fuck better than you lie."
Or just don't respond to it logically at all. Jlaix's stock response to ANY congruence test goes like this:
Girl: "You suck."
Jlaix: "Your mom."
Girl: "You're a jerk."
Jlaix: "Your mom's a jerk."
Girl: "Why are you being such a douchebag?"
Jlaix: "Your mom's a douchebag... IN THE ASS."
To review:
1. Your mom.
2. Your mom ______.
3. Your mom ______ ... IN THE ASS.
As for how to spot them, whenever the girl tries to derail the vibe you've got going and make things confrontational, you've got a congruence test on your hands. DO NOT mistake a girl just giving a vibe-friendly neutral opinion or comment on something as a congruence test. You'll come off really insecure if you get combative about that.
Or just ignore the question and talk to someone else.
Or just change the subject.
In any event, just don't answer whenever there is no right answer.
The verbal content of what the girl says is not important here. It's all about the effect on the VIBE.
Remember the VIBE.
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