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| Author: | Rahminator43 [ Sun Nov 23, 2008 10:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | need help with opening..and approach anxiety |
hey guys im new to the pick up artist thing and so last night i went to a nightclub and planned to open sets but just couldn't do it. I was thinking about what opener to use to each one and there were alot of hot girls and eventually i just lost it and didnt do anything the whole night. wondering if anyone can help me thanks |
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| Author: | NINO THE BEAST [ Mon Nov 24, 2008 12:43 am ] |
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Well first of all, the best way to rid AA is just to approach, use failure as feedback and learn from mistakes, try the 3 second method, it works. Also, try to get in a social frame of mind, when ur goin in say hi to people, start small talk etc... The only way to get better is just push on Happy sargin |
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| Author: | manman [ Mon Nov 24, 2008 5:55 am ] |
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Ok you have fear of approach. Even the best puas had it before. Your problem is this. You don't have experience approaching women, therefore you are scared of what might happen. This is approach anxiety. This fear will take over your whole world unless your eyes Open and actually see, that it is not what you think. It is not bad, or scary. You just think it is. This is from inexperience. Get dressed, go out (it doesn't have to be a club) and use your own opener, Mine for ex. is "hey, i love your style" its direct and cuts all the bullshit, meaning no loss of words, or confusion. Open 10 girls, or sets every day for 5 days a week. you can say any fucking thing. "is this your favorite place?" "hey, whats your name(smiling)" And once you open them, you don't need to say anything afterwards, because after like your 2nd or 3rd day, the NEXT WORDS will come out naturally. The rest is easy, but you have to pick your own style for the rest. Anything works though, **If you think the girl wants you, then she will want you" (it will show in your words/actions) ** **If you think the girl doesn't want you, your right" (it will show in your words/actions) ** |
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| Author: | Munroe (MUNROE) [ Tue Nov 25, 2008 3:24 am ] |
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I like this one: "Hey I'm just going around meeting people." |
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| Author: | manman [ Tue Nov 25, 2008 5:08 am ] |
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Thats a great one. especially for killing fear of approach. and it can lead onto other things naturally, once you feel comfortable opening strangers. |
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