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| Author: | no_one089 [ Sat Nov 22, 2008 6:27 pm ] |
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Ive been trying with this girl for a while now but Im only getting myself in the friend zone because she wont let me make a move. She's never kissed a guy/had sex ect.. So even a hug is a no go for her. I really dont know what to do with this one:( Ive been using negs and everything but its starting to get old. Any help is highly appreciated. |
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| Author: | Balsam [ Sat Nov 22, 2008 9:18 pm ] |
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Sounds like you were already in the friend zone, or you haven't built attraction at all. Most girls will be "friendly", so you HAVE TO not assume she's attracted until you get definate proof. This is the friend zone trap #1; thinking that she's attracted, while in fact she's just being nice. Here's what I think you should do, but then again, other people may have more experience with this kind of situation... 1. Try to built some attraction, by proving your value. 2. Then give her an ultimatum; if she rejects your advances again, just tell her (in your own words) that if she doesn't want to move further then you've got no reason to be there. (And of course leave if she still refuses). Of course this is either moving you forward, or ending all contact with her. There is also the other option, which is making her your friend, and that's that. |
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| Author: | no_one089 [ Sat Nov 22, 2008 9:44 pm ] |
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Quote: Sounds like you were already in the friend zone, or you haven't built attraction at all. Most girls will be "friendly", so you HAVE TO not assume she's attracted until you get definate proof. This is the friend zone trap #1; thinking that she's attracted, while in fact she's just being nice.
Thanks for the reply.Here's what I think you should do, but then again, other people may have more experience with this kind of situation... 1. Try to built some attraction, by proving your value. 2. Then give her an ultimatum; if she rejects your advances again, just tell her (in your own words) that if she doesn't want to move further then you've got no reason to be there. (And of course leave if she still refuses). Of course this is either moving you forward, or ending all contact with her. There is also the other option, which is making her your friend, and that's that. I guess I should also point out this is a girl in my hs class. She's a "goodie goodie" type girl. Another who likes her asked for a hug and she said no. I made a joke about and said he should have just did it. Her reply was "no, then I would have pushed him away" What works with these kind of girls? |
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| Author: | Balsam [ Sun Nov 23, 2008 12:19 am ] |
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I recently experienced something similar. Although this girl was very open/outgoing, she just doesn't seem to "do that kind of thing", if you know what I mean... The thing about her, I think (I'm a hobby psychologist  ), was that she was very close to her father. I mean, she even proclaimed to me how much she loved her dad.I don't know of any way to "bypass" this kind of behaviour, but I'm sure someone does. |
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| Author: | no_one089 [ Sun Nov 23, 2008 3:01 am ] |
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Theres not many girls at the age of 17 who still call sex "making love".. She is very different from the girls at my hs which is why I kinda wanna test myself and maybe even get a good gf for winter:D Maybe start talking about a relationship or something? Idk what to do.. Im thinking Im just gonna end up locked in the friend zone if I dont do something soon. |
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