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| Author: | bove [ Tue Nov 18, 2008 12:30 pm ] |
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I have not found a specific answer to my question anywhere so here it goes: Found a perfect girl (yeah I know) but I made the mistake of telling her how I felt and she did not see it coming at all. I acted so uninterested in her all the time to throw her off and it backfired big time. So basically now, the gig is up and she knows how I feel but has rejected me. Apparently I made no initial attraction because I was too 'big brother' to her. Heres the question... what is the best thing I could do to turn this around? Should I stay in contact with her but try date other people? or blow it off completely and meet her up a few months from now? How do I reset so I can come back and build attraction? To think I studied this stuff for some time and then royally fucked up a good thing... Thanks for the help |
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| Author: | Psych_ [ Tue Nov 18, 2008 3:49 pm ] |
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Reestablish that lost comfort again, which should now have slight sexual tension to it since she knows how you feel. Continually provide her with fun times and demonstrate attractive traits about yourself. While doing this make sure to avoid any awkwardness from what happened and handle her shit tests that might come regarding it. Then just break rapport to create a flirty vibe that gets you out of the friend zone and take it from there bro. Hope this helps Psych |
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| Author: | R.G. [ Tue Nov 18, 2008 5:34 pm ] |
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^Yeah nice advice. I reckon you should continue to meet her, but with friends. Then pawn the girls, amog the guys. Be the amog of the group. Show her your value. Because at the moment, you're value is low compared to hers. If you meet alone you're starting from such a low position in value terms compared to her, and it's hard to change that considering she knows she owns your soul. Better still, game her friends. I was in a café a few months ago and met a few girls I knew, one HB9 who I hadn't really managed to hit it off with at the time. So obviously I approached the obstacles first when she probably expected me to approach her. She immediately left the set to talk to some other people (she's hard to get, really). So while I was gaming her friend, showing magic tricks, her friend goes and gets HER to come to ME. How amazing is that!?!? Obviously it won't happen so easily, but your perfect girl will want you when she realises her friends want you. If nothing else, she will want attention and qualification seeing as her friends are getting all the attention from the amog. I warn you though, don't give it to her, or don't give it to her fully, or like a cat chasing a string, she'll lose interest. Once she is giving a few IOI's or signs of wanting qualification, skip comfort and carry on attraction, see if you can isolate. Neg and disqualify her a lot. Show her you don't need her, but she needs you. I don't think it's worth going for comfort here. You will only strengthen your friend-zoneness with her. Just go push/pull. Hope this helps. |
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| Author: | bove [ Wed Nov 19, 2008 1:04 am ] |
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Thanks fellas. I will keep that in mind if she ever returns my call... looks like I lost another keeper |
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| Author: | manman [ Mon Nov 24, 2008 6:25 am ] |
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Yea, this stuff fails alot of people. That reason is because .. you ready? \ ITS not your style. Trying all these routines and shit will fail you if you are not 100% committed to them. And stop looking for love, WHEN you told the girl how you felt about her, im guessing you said "i like you" or something to that nature, anything you said or done after that point was shit to her. You fked it up with her by showing her your emotions, always let her do it first. But you're the shit because you made a mistake and learned from it. I have told a girl that i liked her and she should be my girlfriend like 2 days after we hung out. And stupid me, i almost fell in love with her. But little did i know, this made me out 2 be too desperate and needy. So she ended up ignoring all of my calls and texts and said i was just a little boy. Back then, I didn't know the rules or truths or whatevr. Had i, i would have done the right thing from the START. If these routines and canned shit, and big brother shit isn't working for you, Stop reading it, because you will fail 99% of the time. Download a program that is right for YOU and follow it all the way to the end. When you master it, (a few months) you will be a pro at getting women. Much faster than ANy memorized routine canned opener, dhv,locking,stories, anything, because learning all this crap will almost certainly fail you, and if it doesn't, it will take you years to master. Follow ONE plan, or one ebook (one style) until the end. Forget trying everything. For me, i chose alex nova's style. or like david wygant, i haven't even seen a #close from his shit.Fuck him. but good luck, find what FITS YOU. and it you will not fail my friend. |
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| Author: | Munroe (MUNROE) [ Mon Nov 24, 2008 9:48 pm ] |
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In terms of techniques, a lot of people make the mistake of using lines and techniques that other people make up, using them at face value, and then getting upset and trashing the technique because it didn't work for them. Mastering techniques is about taking them apart, figuring out how and why it works, and internalizing it. If you have internalized the technique, then the lines are replaceable. I have rarely found a pickup technique that I didn't think was fundamentally sound after dissecting it. If you have taken a technique apart, figured out how and why it works, and determined it to be based on truth, then you should internalize it and make it part of your personality. If you have done all those things and its not working for you, it probably means you need more practice. Also, just because something doesn't work or isn't useful to you now, it doesn't mean it won't have value later on. |
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