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| Author: | DarknessJ [ Sun Nov 16, 2008 9:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | Girl in love and still LMR? Possible? |
At my work there's a moslim girl, 28 years old and has a child. We've been flirting back and forth. There are also a few female clients that show interest in me. They openly flirt with me infront of everyone. Which does wonders for my social proof. So this moslim chick plays hard to get. Calling me everything from being a player, ugly, not her type, too young and whatnot. These remarks didnt face me at all, just brushed them of and told her that she liked me. Also whenever theres a job to be done she voluntairs us for the job without even asking me if i would like to do it. If someone wants to help us she kindly tells them that we dont need any help. In other words: leaf us alone. One day we were sitting in the office alone were she confessed her love for me. This startled me! I thought it was one of her games! Anyways, i desided to take things further. Next day i pushed her into a corner to kiss her. She kept pushing me back and once again she named all the reason why we shouldnt be doing this. But at the same time i could see that she was loving it. Smiling al the time,with the expression on her face like "OMG, i cant believe this is happening to me". It was going on for too long so i stopped. She asked me to sit down to talk about 'us'. To me it felt like an interview were I had to sell myself to her. I wasnt having it so i bounced. Maybe this was a lost change to seal the deal. She walked after me and in a not so friendly tone she said: ow, so you want to play these kind of games? Soon after she left te building. 2 hour later a smséd her to see if she came home save. No reply. Big surprise there! I dont know if i screwed things up. Dont really mind this because i need to build experience by trying new stuff. Not outcome depended as they say. But would like to know what you guys think of my reaction on her behaviour and where i stand with her. Any tips or pointer?? |
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| Author: | scottrichard [ Mon Nov 17, 2008 1:25 am ] |
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im quite new in the game but it sounds to me even though she loves you; You havnt built trust and comfort to take things further into a more intimate level. I think the best thing to do woud be to ask her out and take her to a good comfort building location then bounce afterwards to somewhere else. This would make her feel more comfortable with you in a non- working envirnment and help build alot more rapport. When you ask her out she may have buyers remorse (regrets kissing you before). if that is the case then you should build more comfort over time acting unfazed by her reactions and try your luck later. |
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| Author: | Munroe (MUNROE) [ Mon Nov 17, 2008 8:33 am ] |
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When a girl is giving last minute resistance or says she isn't comfortable yet, AGREE WITH HER. Over agree if you need to. Punish her by agreeing, cease touching, and pull yourself back with a takeaway or freeze out. Basically go into platonic friend mode and she will pull you back when she misses your affection. This builds trust and shows non-needy, high value behavior on your part. Anyways, if you are getting real LMR, it means you haven't built enough comfort. Also, if she says she loves you, you shouldn't have to qualify yourself to her. Ask her to give you 3 reasons she loves you, and/or give three good qualities about herself that have nothing to do with her looks or her job. |
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| Author: | DarknessJ [ Mon Nov 17, 2008 10:38 am ] |
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Thanks for the advise. Yes i think your right, i havent build enough comfort with her. Now she's ignoring me purposefully. But whenever i talk to another women she meddles with the confo acting all jealous. Asking her out, eh? Dont know if she'll dig that. In her bad state that she's in i would probably be rejected. Need to get her in a good mood again. Any tips on how i could go about doing that? |
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