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Author:  Bothan321 [ Sun Nov 16, 2008 7:48 am ]
Post subject:  I always turn out just being friends with girls

I think it's because they think I am in a relationship but I'm not

Author:  jurupa [ Sun Nov 16, 2008 9:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I always turn out just being friends with girls

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I think it's because they think I am in a relationship but I'm not
Or it may because you are not presenting your self to be boyfriend material. Meaning in short your being their friend and not acting like someone that can/could be their boyfriend.

Author:  DarknessJ [ Sun Nov 16, 2008 9:41 am ]
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We need more details. Give us an example how things go down with girls

Author:  Bothan321 [ Sun Nov 16, 2008 8:36 pm ]
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well there is this girl i talked to every day in class and sometimes id walk with her out of class. and she didnt talk to other guys just me. but then later she said she thought of me as a friend??????? I thought because I talked to her everyday and we had fun that was enough. I talked to her alot.

Author:  Munroe (MUNROE) [ Mon Nov 17, 2008 8:42 am ]
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You're an AFC. Girls don't see you as a potential mate. You're probably act in an overly compliant, needy, and/or approval seeking manner.

Here are some helpful points:

- Physical beauty alone is not enough to warrant your attention. Beauty is common.
- Don't give IOIs until she gives IOIs first. Girls don't want a guy that is to easy to get.
- Understand that a lot of things guys do to express interest don't build attraction. On the other hand, a lot of things guys do to express a lack of caring or even disinterest do build attraction.
- If you seriously have to ask, the answer is probably no.

Start studying. You are not a natural, which means you need the help of published materials or lessons. Read "The Game".

Author:  Poetry [ Wed Nov 19, 2008 4:32 pm ]
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While talking with someone is nice, just talking is not building attraction. If there is no attraction guess where you're at - the dreaded FRIEND ZONE.

Definitely read The Game and keep reading stuff on the forums. Good luck.

Author:  Prolific [ Thu Nov 20, 2008 6:09 pm ]
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I agree with guru oz, you need more experience with women. Just talking to a girl and walking with her everyday doesnt build attraction, it makes you her pet more or less. flip the script on her and man up. suddenly u are as nice as you used to be. tease her. neg her. talk to other girls in the class and neglect her. she needs to be trying to get your attention, not passing the time from class to class "talking" to this "friend".
basically- u need some practice. dont be affraid of failure cause in the end it doesnt fuckin matter what happened with that girl u never got with. good luck

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