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| Author: | chrish [ Fri Nov 07, 2008 6:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Frame Control Problems |
Some days I'm on fire, but sometimes I'm feeling anti social even when I want to game a girl.I start forgetting the steps of a pick up say things without my usual seductive attitude. How do you guys deal with your frame of reality and stay in the game? Also, I'm finding every girl I see less and less attractive. Do you guys settle for mild girls when you go pick up or do you wait for HB10s? |
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| Author: | Psych_ [ Fri Nov 07, 2008 9:39 pm ] |
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By talking and chatting up everyone you see and maintaining the role you wish to project. Thing is you can always switch your role and become "on" you just don't want to. You're relaxed and comfortable in your non-pickup role. If you do force yourself to do it you do it half asked and then reaffirm that it's just not your night or your frame is weak. When in this negative role I want you to smirk and remember how bad ass you are and how good you are. Also remember it doesn't really matter what happens and it's all just about having fun. Then go approach and enjoy what happens even if it's a failure. Go back to being a social experimenter and enjoy the failure cause you can see what you did wrong. With that said it's OK to not always be an approach machine and "on". Sometimes if you're not in the mood you're just not in the mood...don't beat yourself up about it. |
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| Author: | R.G. [ Fri Nov 07, 2008 11:13 pm ] |
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I know what you mean. Best thing that I would do is that not every approach has to be a pick up. You can approach, and then if you're not feeling in the seductive groove, then just make a friend of the girl - this can be very fun and relaxed for both of you, rather than building sexual tension. You can skip most of the attraction stage and go into building comfort early. Yeah, I find that I find girls less and less attractive. I have also found that gaming 9+'s are much easier for me after having been in the game for a while. I only game 7+'s. Normally the 7's I game just for future social proof and pivots, but I am less interested in looks the more i game. The more I game the more I become interested in the style and personality of a girl. Like some sarges you really enjoy and others you find a drag, even if the outcome of both is the same success. It's amazing to meet so many different women and be able to be selective about which ones you want. I've been gaming this HB9.5 at my college for a while (everyone wants her but fails). Recently, after getting pretty far with her, I just decided...F** this, she's hot, but she's SO BORING. And I'm SO TIRED of constantly reframing her, beating her shit tests and negging her down. I'm SO TIRED of multithreading and spewing out canned material with her, because she's hot but has no personality. So yeah, be selective, if you're not feeling it, just approach with a care-free attitude. |
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