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| Author: | invincible77 [ Tue Nov 04, 2008 5:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Leave the girl better than you found her... |
So there are a few hb's that I have been gaming and I plan on taking one to the next level. The unfortunate part of this is that there are 3 other hb's that are WAY too into me. I know if I cut things off with them it will completely kill them. I'd like to stick to the rule of "leave them better than you found them," but I have yet to find a way to do this. What can I say to these girls that will give them hope and not leave them completely heart broken? Attraction is a powerful thing and no matter what I say I know they will be hurt. Is there anything I can do to make things not so hard on them? Anything? Thanks, Slayer |
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| Author: | V1V [ Tue Nov 04, 2008 6:07 pm ] |
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its crueler to leave them not sure and confused, than sure and upset. either go mutli - or end them. dont be cruel. |
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| Author: | desividesi [ Sat Nov 08, 2008 11:57 am ] |
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I have the same problem.... When you get into multi-dating.. and you have built strong attraction, it becomes dangerous play.. because you are treading on some thin lines of breaking hearts.... I too am wondering on how to convey to most of the girls who are in love with me.. that we have spent some nice time together.. and I want to leave them better than they were before. I just cannot think of any strategies to do this. I managed to talk my way out of 1 situation.... and she is now a good friend. It was very difficult talk, but it worked, because this girl was matured in thought. With the rest... I cannot think how.... |
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| Author: | desividesi [ Sat Nov 08, 2008 12:00 pm ] |
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I have the same problem.... When you get into multi-dating.. and you have built strong attraction, it becomes dangerous play.. because you are treading on some thin lines of breaking hearts.... I too am wondering on how to convey to most of the girls who are in love with me.. that we have spent some nice time together.. and I want to leave them better than they were before. I just cannot think of any strategies to do this. I managed to talk my way out of 1 situation.... and she is now a good friend. It was very difficult talk, but it worked, because this girl was matured in thought. With the rest... I cannot think how.... |
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