Ok, I'll try to make this as short as possible.

Met a girl on the internet - chatted online periodically for a few weeks.

Met up Wednesday for a coffee, and then a quick meal (over about 2-3 hours). It went very well - plenty of kino, good conversation, no awkward silences.

Text her after saying had fun nice to meet you etc. I also said 'feel free to come visit me in my dreams'. Is this good or not? I hate telephones

She messages back IMMEDIATELY saying nice to meet you etc. Doesn't mention dream thing...

I msg her next day (Thurs) saying I'm dissapionted you didn't visit me (I went back to the dream thing ), so I'm going to come visit you, and are you free on Sat.

She messages back the next day (Fri) saying 'did you find me?'. She says she available on Sat from 4-6.30 (WTF?!?), BUT adds a winky emoticon. Does this mean anything?

I replied a few hours ago saying 'yeah I found you but I can't tell you what happened. you were a bit of an embarassment'. I refused her invitation saying it's not convenient. I did this coz I didn't know what to make of her 'I'm only available between 4-6.30' msg. WTF does this mean?

PS - I only have her cell phone email so don't say just call her. I write these things coz things often come to mind that I've missed while writing. For example, perhaps it'd be a good idea to wait a day or two to give her a chance to reply and then get her number and just call her, coz I'm getting the feeling I'm losing this one...

She messages back the next day (Fri) saying 'did you find me?'. She says she available on Sat from 4-6.30 (WTF?!?), BUT adds a winky emoticon. Does this mean anything?

'I'm only available between 4-6.30' msg. WTF does this mean?

PS - I only have her cell phone email so don't say just call her.

For example, perhaps it'd be a good idea to wait a day or two to give her a chance to reply and then get her number and just call her, coz I'm getting the feeling I'm losing this one...