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1 Million IOI's...No Close...Again!!!!!!!
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Author:  OctavianusPUA [ Sun Oct 05, 2008 12:34 am ]
Post subject:  1 Million IOI's...No Close...Again!!!!!!!
I have been on an unbelievably cold streak for the past year or so. I have been approached many times and have been getting huge quantities of IOI's, but am getting absolutely zero when it comes time to close. I haven't successfully kiss closed anyone in over a year and I am beginning to grow very concerned. I am calling all you for your sage wisdom and advice. If it helps at all...by the end of the interaction, I get a very distinct "I was just playing around, game over, I never actually had any serious interest" vibe. HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELP!!!!
Author:  V1V [ Sun Oct 05, 2008 12:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 1 Million IOI's...No Close...Again!!!!!!!
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I have been on an unbelievably cold streak for the past year or so. I have been approached many times and have been getting huge quantities of IOI's, but am getting absolutely zero when it comes time to close. I haven't successfully kiss closed anyone in over a year and I am beginning to grow very concerned. I am calling all you for your sage wisdom and advice. If it helps at all...by the end of the interaction, I get a very distinct "I was just playing around, game over, I never actually had any serious interest" vibe. HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELP!!!!
what phase do you try and close in?
day or night game? where?
V1V :twisted:
Author:  OctavianusPUA [ Sun Oct 05, 2008 8:28 pm ]
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I am primarily trying to close during night time game after a night out of drinking and fun. Women frequently approach me, and I am regularly treated like a desirable man. I keep the dynamic of me being the prize, but I lose all power as soon as I try to cash in the IOI's in the form of a kiss close. I have had the majority of my success when I do essentially nothing and let the woman make all of the moves physically. I have had close to zero success when I have tried to initiate anything physically. I know that I am supposed to be controlling the situation, but that simply hasn't worked for me. What do you think I might be doing wrong?

Octavian
Author:  V1V [ Tue Oct 07, 2008 10:42 pm ]
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I am primarily trying to close during night time game after a night out of drinking and fun. Women frequently approach me, and I am regularly treated like a desirable man. I keep the dynamic of me being the prize, but I lose all power as soon as I try to cash in the IOI's in the form of a kiss close. I have had the majority of my success when I do essentially nothing and let the woman make all of the moves physically. I have had close to zero success when I have tried to initiate anything physically. I know that I am supposed to be controlling the situation, but that simply hasn't worked for me. What do you think I might be doing wrong?

Octavian
as long as your pulling strings to get what you want you have control. ok so your not good at closing. pull all the strings to get her to close YOU. its not a bad thing. its hard to say without a record of what you said - how you done what and when. look for the points in the phase where you get it wrong and ask again. trial and improvement :)
V1V :twisted:
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