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every time i see this girl at a party we chat it up. we have pretty good chemistry and she's the kind of girl that can talk nonstop so not only does that keep the conversation going but i can neg slightly on the fact that she's so high energy compared to everyone else. anyways the only problem is she always tries to lead me around. she'll either grab me by the hand or the arm and be like "lets go make some friends" or "i have to use the washroom"(i know wtf right..). is this an IOI? A shit test? the thing ive been doing lately to deal with this is i shrug her off my arm and continue talking to ppl and she walks on still, pretending it didnt happen..
if she says to you lets go and make some friends and grabs YOU by the arm the chances are that she has the dominant hold. switch it round and put her hand on the inside of your arm. now you have the dominant hold say that your in charge with a neg. hb: lets go make some friends
pua: ill introduce you with some of mine - just dont creep them out yeah.
or if youve done this once already and she trys again just say yo, dont touch the material. and stay where you are. when shes settled next to you and isnt trying to move anywhere, move her
. if she dont come say fine, and leave her. return later with a girl on your arm. this also preserves her comfort levels if you leave her. only be gone for about 5 mins.V1V
