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Author:  Sheer Con [ Sat Sep 27, 2008 2:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Transitioning to Comfort
So opener is ok and I am good at showing disinterest actively and passively. I've been starting to get decent at DHV. not so much stories but just by making freinds with AMOGs in the bar. when you have AMOGs high fiving you throughout the night, it's pretty good social proof. The part that I'm having the most trouble with is the end of the attraction phase. I've got them attracted, I can tell (this sense is still new to me after learning how to read IOI's) but I run out of stuff to say at that point. Negging usually comes before then and I don't want to give up and start asking the same usuall questions like what's ur major, do u like it, etc. I need to clear this part of the attraction phase before I start transitioning into comfort. any suggestions??
Author:  Ezo [ Sat Sep 27, 2008 3:03 pm ]
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You need to listen to what she has to say.

In A1 and A2 it is all about yourself, you you you! You can basically run a script there. In A3, things are changing. You can not just ignore her anymore, you need to show interest in who she is, the personality. Pick up on anything she says that you have any interest in at all.
Like "HB: Im from NY, but Im here for the weekend to see the art exhibition with my cousin who is getting married tomorrow."
So you have to find a common interest in this sentence, I would go for:
- NY, I was there last week, amazing, you dont really live downtown do you? Really?
- Oh just over the weekend, I prefer to have the long weekends when you get the friday off etc. You look like a travelling girl, ever been to? No/Yes, really?
- Art? Youre kidding me right, my sister is a painter, are you an artist too or just looking. Wow an art critic, that rocks.
- Cousin, older? Do you have good contact, I can tell that you are a social person.
- Married? Wow, I cannot imagine bla bla bla...

You get the point, find a common interest, a topic to talk about! IOI her for stuff (not beauty). Do some cold readings, this transitions into C1 in a natural way.
Are you spiritual? Get this...


Ezo
Author:  Pirate K [ Mon Sep 29, 2008 6:05 am ]
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what i tend to do is, to ask an open question like.. whats the most fun thing you did recently and regardless of what they say, i would have a long story about Me to follow up. Most of the time she usually says something interesting like... smashing cake at some birthday person's face.. i'll be like wow.. then continue w 4 other stories of how we rag the birthday people.. like throwing them into the pond and stuff. If she says something boring like... meet a friend for coffee.. or movie. I would usually say that must be boring and im usually right unless she disagrees strongly and starts defending it - why it wasnt boring. by then, the convo gets into a pretty good energy, the right kind for kino.
Author:  A Minor [ Mon Sep 29, 2008 5:18 pm ]
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Marked for further reading...
Author:  V1V [ Wed Oct 01, 2008 7:56 pm ]
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qualify her. bait hook reel release. you also need a reason to be attracted to her past her looks.

bait: what have you got going for you more than your looks?(PUA)

hook:im an actress(HB)

reel:omfg thats so cool! i admire people who get involved in that stuff!(PUA)

release: your great - i cant even talk to you right now (push her away).(PUA)


(5min rif)


3 things you look for in a guy(PUA)

blah blah blah (HB)

3 things i look for in a girl - and im not talking about looks either - beauty is common and ive had all the pretty faces before. a good energy. a good personality. and a good outlook. ahhh thats 2/3 theres definatey room for improvement :P (PUA - thats your stencil for a reason past looks)


you need about 3 or four of bait hook reel releases. id say three to keep her in shape :D. dont spill them out all at once - its gonna be too fast. have a RIF (normal convo) intervening every bait hook reel release.


V1V :twisted:

ps. obviously you move her to a quiet comfort location - preferably one where you can sit down.
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