had this chick over last nite, till about 4:30 a.m.

She was reluctant about having sex, so i had to settle for a brief 3rd base session.

Anyway, I'm wondering how to transition from making out and all that good stuff into sex. Do I ask her straight up, do you wanna fuck? Or do I keep doing and just hope that it happens naturally?

Also, how much time should I spend executing foreplay/make-out until I try to transition into sex?

any tips would be awesome.

cran-sauz

Well man, you can discuss it if you want to and thats your choice. For me I start kissing her and spend a good few minutes kissing her before I start touching. I take my time and just keep escalating until she tells me "No." When she tells me that I STOP. Many times she won't resist and you can continue to your goal. If she does resist again the you have two moves left.

You can now perform a freeze out not giving her any attention. There are various ways to do this and they are discussed on the forum. Basically, you kill the mood flip on the TV and check your email or whatever. You don't talk about it you just change the mood. After a while she feels silly and it works out. Then I'll go back to kissing and stuff. Sure enough, I'm going to try to escalate one more time. This is known as plowing through LMR (Last Minute Resistence).

You can of course just try to plow through as well and see what happens. By plowing when you are making out and stuff. She says, "We shouldn't be doing this." or some variation you repeat what she says, "You're right we shouldn't be doing this." However you never stop escalating or kissing her. You just agree with her but keep it going. Think of it like pleasing her body but trying to appease her mind.

You are a man and you have a cock. It's up to you to lead the interactions with her and escalate. This is your responsibility and there is nothing wrong with that at all. She has to be accountable for her actions too so don't worry about just plowing through stuff and her comfort level. She'll stop you if she needs to.

**How much time to spend?** It really depends on personal choice and style. Here is what I do, I'm not saying it's right but it works for me. I do about 5 minutes of just lip locking good kissing. Then I move to touching and kissing in more erogenous zones like ears, neck, collarbone, lip biting, etc. From about another 5 minutes or so of this the touching is going on with it. I start taking clothes off at that point slowly taking my time. About when she's half naked I take her hand and just lead her to the bedroom. At the most I'll say, "Come on." When she goes with you she's mentally agreed to doing it.

PEACE

had this chick over last nite, till about 4:30 a.m.

She was reluctant about having sex, so i had to settle for a brief 3rd base session.

Anyway, I'm wondering how to transition from making out and all that good stuff into sex. Do I ask her straight up, do you wanna fuck? Or do I keep doing and just hope that it happens naturally?

Also, how much time should I spend executing foreplay/make-out until I try to transition into sex?

any tips would be awesome.

cran-sauz

I be careful of doing this. I know in some states if a girl says no and you continue its rape, even if her body language says otherwise.