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| Author: | Nightfox [ Sun Sep 14, 2008 9:14 am ] |
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Keep bringing one (or several) of the girls to the bar. Keep their buying temperature up, and befriend their friends as soon as possible. If one of the girls leaves with her friends, you didn't play your game solid enough. Once the damage is done, proceed by gaming in the bar as usual. If you play your game good and don't end up all alone, the girls might even come back. Don't be so shocked by your losses - they don't matter. Just game other people and have fun. |
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| Author: | D_Haile03 [ Sun Sep 14, 2008 9:08 pm ] |
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not meaning to sond rude but maybe you should get some friends to go bar with. Ppl need to appreciate that you are with friends if dey are gona approach or accept you. otherwise they might jus think ur some kinda wierdo. lol |
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| Author: | Wharris1985 [ Sun Sep 14, 2008 10:25 pm ] |
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Well I mean if the girls are feeling you that much at the house, just approach them at the bar. They obviously know who you are and sound attracted to you. If you lack the friendship with some of the guys they are with so thats why its awkward to approach them then just befriend some of the guys there. Sometimes its necessary to sarge some of the guys in the room to get to the girls. let me know if you have any updates with this. |
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| Author: | Sutko [ Tue Sep 16, 2008 1:04 pm ] |
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Quote: Hopefully i can just hop in with a group of chicks and bang em
Well, if that's your attitude, I think I can figure out why they shy away. Women can tell. The key is to be the guy that doesn't want to bang 'em, and make them figure out why. A little respect for women never hurts either.
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| Author: | Ohboyotellama [ Wed Sep 17, 2008 7:37 am ] |
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Honestly if you aren't taking girls home then you aren't really close to PUA status mid level PUA practitioners that aren't PUA status typically take women home with them thats why it's an artform is because it's a practiced technique so if you aren't bringing in the goods then you definately need some work. I am not saying this to discourage you but to let you know where you stand in the gaming world. By reading the description of whats happening I feel as though you aren't building enough attraction. If you feel comfortable in your game at the house then that's where you need to strike your hardest. BUILD COMFORT as fast as you can while at the frat house pick a target while at the house escalate kino and build comfort and rapport. If you have ever watched the movie school for scoundrels then you would know billy bob thorton has a rule in his class (anywhere you are is lame) so without using this exact technique maybe you should keep it in mind when you hit the bar and bounce your target or several girls over to a different area you feel more comfortable with. If you can't bounce them then don't be the needy guy though and only talk to the girls you showed up with from the frat house try raising your social proof and DHVing by walking around to the other girls in the bar like you already know who they are and popping in an opinion opener and performing a few number closes social proof is a powerful weapon when used properly never be afraid to approach a girl and never be afraid to walk away. Remember walking away and talking to someone else shows that you are not needy and in so doing you yet again demonstrate a DHV. I hope this post helps you. ~EeK |
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