PUA Forum :: NEED HELP to destroy a BF

I have a similar issue with a close friend of mine. All I do is play solid game, and we generally end up kissing. But, she went and told her BF what happened....she seems unsure also. I'm not looking for a steal myself.... but if your sure you want to back, here's a few pointers:
- Cut the kino. If she does something good, reward. Perhaps point score her.
-Create pressure.
-Stare at her if she says something from the relationship. Build sexual tension.
-Make inside jokes. I call mine boyfriend, she calls me girlfriend. Its awesome.
- Avoid the BF. If she talks about him in a good way, agree. Say he's perfect. If she talks in a bad way, say "Some guys don't know what they've got"
- If you need to see her, and have texts, use some of the lines of the list of texts board. Do this quite late, so she reads them before sleep, or she'll get them the minute she gets up.
- Get one, or more of her friends on your side. They will say, with gentle helping, that she's better with you. Social Proof.
- If she's scared to see you for feelings, just joke about it. Don't dwell upon convincing her. If required, hang with her BF and her for a while. It HURTS so much to see this, but, if she see's you get along, you could fit in her life as a good friend, then widen this slowly until you get what you want.
- Convince you could provide security. Show skills.

What your doing isn't wrong in my eyes. If you wanna be happy, you've gotta have this girl. And if your gonna love her, and be better than this BF, I say go for it.

Good luck.

Author:	Dokstar [ Mon Sep 01, 2008 8:50 pm ]
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Hey! Okay.. I JUST got off the phone with this chick (i remember her as an HB7-8, but havent seen her in 1.5 years so who knows right) and the conversation went GREAT! When I told her who it was her voice SKYROCKETED! (phone IOI ). Within moments I had her laughing pretty good. I tossed in light negs, nothing heavy because we are technically 'old friends.' Here's some of the exchanges I recall - feedback always appreciated: Her: So what have you been doing for the last year? Me: Well, I dont want to tell you everything... we need to have something to discuss when we meet for lunch. Her: HAHAHA, ya, we dont want to have a boring lunch together Me: real real brief discussion of where I've been for the last year. DHV employed here, but i dont give any details only reference the cooler aspects of the last year. Me: But what about you? I know you are starting school soon, but what did you do over the summer? Remember, keep some things secret so you have something to tell me later. Her: Okay! Ill keep some secrets. Well, i have... been... doing... NOTHING! Me: wow, you sure know how to live life to the fullest [not exactly what i said, but i basically implied she was super boring w/o actually explicitly saying that] Her: HAHAHAHA - no i actually did this and that.. blah blah (she took a trip to vegas) Me: I know you are supposed to 'keep it in Vegas' but you know you have to tell me what you got up to while in Vegas ^^ (probalby kinda AFC to show interest in this.. but i still wanted to know ~ to me this is a very very subtle sexual seed that has been planted, i want to be able to openly discuss sex with her.. so i want to show that im not afraid to casually mention sex / sex-related topics - opinions?) Her: Of course i will (not what she said, but she implied she was fine with 'telling me') Me: Okay look, I gotta get going cause I have a lot of things to do. Gotta go spend some time with the Fam (time constraint an DHV / illustrate you love your family - asian girls love this characteristic in men) Her: Oooookaaaaaay. We finalize our plans for Friday this week. This means i have ONE week to get familiar with BF destroying routines. CAN ANYONE HELP ME / REFERENCE some? I've always wanted this chick, but was too much of an AFC while I was in uni to do it. I also had a GF when she was single. Now im single and she has a BF... I know she is attracted to me. What do i do? plz help

Author:	8Bit [ Fri Sep 05, 2008 4:35 pm ]
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Just posted for Ezoghoul, also applies in this case....a good few BF Stealing tips. Quote: I have a similar issue with a close friend of mine. All I do is play solid game, and we generally end up kissing. But, she went and told her BF what happened....she seems unsure also. I'm not looking for a steal myself.... but if your sure you want to back, here's a few pointers: - Cut the kino. If she does something good, reward. Perhaps point score her. -Create pressure. -Stare at her if she says something from the relationship. Build sexual tension. -Make inside jokes. I call mine boyfriend, she calls me girlfriend. Its awesome. - Avoid the BF. If she talks about him in a good way, agree. Say he's perfect. If she talks in a bad way, say "Some guys don't know what they've got" - If you need to see her, and have texts, use some of the lines of the list of texts board. Do this quite late, so she reads them before sleep, or she'll get them the minute she gets up. - Get one, or more of her friends on your side. They will say, with gentle helping, that she's better with you. Social Proof. - If she's scared to see you for feelings, just joke about it. Don't dwell upon convincing her. If required, hang with her BF and her for a while. It HURTS so much to see this, but, if she see's you get along, you could fit in her life as a good friend, then widen this slowly until you get what you want. - Convince you could provide security. Show skills. What your doing isn't wrong in my eyes. If you wanna be happy, you've gotta have this girl. And if your gonna love her, and be better than this BF, I say go for it. Good luck. Hope this helps, and ask any questions if you like.

Author:	SouthernSeducer [ Fri Sep 05, 2008 6:18 pm ]
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No - If she has a BF she is off limits Yes - Who cares about her BF, i just want a LTMR with her Kinda - Work game on her, but just dont take it as far as Fclosing The options are too narrow. There is a time and place...very very specific scenarios will I ever close with a girl that has a 'bf'. Very narrow window, though. This is just my opinion: If she wants it, the opportunity will present itself all by itself. Simple as that.

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