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OK so I'm confident at opening and hooking a set. I can start talking and become the centre of attention. Easy. I just don't know when/how to isolate a target.
How long after opening a set should I isolate?
What steps can I take to ensure I will be taken up on the offer?
What should I do/say to isolate? Need a few decent methods to try out.
Some scenarios I can imagine are in a bar/club, house party, outdoors or perhaps coffee shop.
If you are kind enough to reply would you also say whether you have tried the methods in field and how well they work for you. If not then I still apreciate any theory knowledge you may have.
I pretty much use material from the Venusian Arts so that's where these anaswers are coming from, and in my person experience.How long after opening a set should I isolate?
What steps can I take to ensure I will be taken up on the offer?
What should I do/say to isolate? Need a few decent methods to try out.
Some scenarios I can imagine are in a bar/club, house party, outdoors or perhaps coffee shop.
If you are kind enough to reply would you also say whether you have tried the methods in field and how well they work for you. If not then I still apreciate any theory knowledge you may have.
You should be isolating as you are entering into comfort phase. I can't really give you a time frame because every set is different. If I had to give you an estimate give or take about 15-20 minutes in set, sometimes you can do it sooner.
To be taken up on the offer make sure to befriend the group with the way I'm about to tell you. Make sure you engage all of them with conversation at some point, and give them good eye contact, it builds trust.
Okay, the opening is done, the negging is pretty much over because she's attracted. I've shown some interest in her at this point by not ignoring her so much, and maybe even stating it a bit. I say to the group, "Your friend and I kind of like each other, you mind if I borrow her for a minute?"
Once you have the approval of her peer group it's going to be hard for her to object because she wants to stay with her friends. But we want to preserve the comfort levels with her here. So after they give you their approval then I say to them, "We're just going to be right over there!" and I point to where I'm going to be. Stay within about 10 to 15 feet so they can see what's going on, and don't get worried about her and come looking for her.
There is no need to take her somewhere that her friends can't see her. They will just get worried about her, and come looking. I've winged sets where my buddy isolated and went somewhere too far away. I had to disarm the group the whole time, and it was tough keeping them there and cool.
I will take her hand and tell her, "Hey come with me" OR "Hey I want to show you something cool!"
Anyways, take her somewhere where you too can sit down like a couch or something. Somewhere far enough away the group can't really hear the conversation but close enough they can keep eye contact with her and know she's safe and stuff.
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