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Author:  lennon [ Wed Jun 11, 2008 12:56 pm ]
Post subject:  I need help I SUCK at MAINTAINING attraction
Man do I seriously blow when it comes to maintaining and increasing attraction and really if you can't do that, nothing else really matters!! For example, just recently I met this smokin' hb10 named Jackie. I didn't get a number close but I got her email and IM SN so I figured I'd work it from there. The thing is I've used some funny canned stuff to open her on IM and some other stuff I learned but I get these short responses from her all the time and I will ask her questions about herself, she'll answer but not say "how about you?" and the last time I emailed her the day before yesterday I said, "hey, I've had a really bad day, if you want write me back feel free, otherwise I'll hit you up tomarrow" Well, she didn't write me back so I haven't hit her up. Why should I? she doesn't care obviously and I feel like one of those AFC orbiters hb's have that she just keeps around for her own self-esteem. With the girls I'm interested in I ALWAYS end up feeling like one of them. What can I do :?: -Lennon
Author:  Krush [ Thu Jun 12, 2008 12:53 am ]
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"hey, I've had a really bad day
You came off as a needy weakling. DLV for sure.
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if you want write me back feel free, otherwise I'll hit you up tomarrow
Alpha males do not ask, they tell. And then you still hang on by telling her you will write back. There is no challenge or mystery about you.
You need to not care so much about the outcome and don't demonstare weakness such as telling her you've had a bad day. My advice to you is move on and don't contact this chick again, start over with a new one, but this time make sure you DHV before you get her e-mail. And don't spill your guts out to a woman you have not fucked yet.
Author:  lennon [ Thu Jun 12, 2008 7:38 am ]
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Quote:
Quote:
"hey, I've had a really bad day
You came off as a needy weakling. DLV for sure.
Quote:
if you want write me back feel free, otherwise I'll hit you up tomarrow
Alpha males do not ask, they tell. And then you still hang on by telling her you will write back. There is no challenge or mystery about you.
You need to not care so much about the outcome and don't demonstare weakness such as telling her you've had a bad day. My advice to you is move on and don't contact this chick again, start over with a new one, but this time make sure you DHV before you get her e-mail. And don't spill your guts out to a woman you have not fucked yet.
I didn't spill my guys out to her. I just mentioned I had had a shitty day thinking she'd ask why. I'm not talking to her again either but good advice to tell not ask... :lol:
Author:  The Libertine [ Thu Jun 12, 2008 8:23 am ]
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Gotta agree with lennon and Krush...both made good points..

As soon as I realise the target has lost interest because I've DLV'd in major way...I pretty much scrap the whole project and start again...
Because it takes far less effort to start again rather than repair the damage done which would take a major DHV to pull off...

As for gaining attraction it's better to do this infield...rather than online, doing things online doesn't allow you to practice, pacing, tonality, animation, kino, and energy...

Another thing...you've gotta deal with your self esteem issues..you don't blow totally attraction afterall you got her email... Next time you a get a chicks email...continue with the material...for a while then pull back until she iniates the chat next time...this will convey non-neediness...always chatting can become banal, and shows neediness...resulting in a loss of attraction...
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