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| Author: | cencalroyalty [ Mon Jun 02, 2008 7:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | how do i go to seduction? |
i havent read any books or anything. i just use the internet like youtube and this to guide my life and it has worked well. i got decent game but i get stuck on confort. i know i have attraction and confort and then i get stuck there. should i say that i have a little crush on her? im completely stuck on how to move past confort. anything helps. |
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| Author: | Chief [ Mon Jun 02, 2008 3:23 pm ] |
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do you kino? |
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| Author: | Droether [ Mon Jun 02, 2008 4:46 pm ] |
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Telling her you have a crush on her, is a big no-no. You see, by telling her that, it effectively gives her the 'power' in your relationship. It allows her to easily go "Oh well... I don't like you in that way" which is never good. As for starting into the "seduction" phase, I'd recommend going kino. There are different ways you can bridge into this. A favourite example of mine are on escalators in the local shopping mall. Being quite tall, I usually have the height advantage over girls, and let them go on the step in front of me. Then I'll turn them round (Hands on their hips and gently push/turn) and be like "Nuh, you're on a 5inch step and you're STILL smaller than me". Brings the C&F into it too. |
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| Author: | Bidyah [ Mon Jun 02, 2008 5:11 pm ] |
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Quote: Telling her you have a crush on her, is a big no-no.
That's not entirely true.I think your problem ist not how to move past comfort, but the fact that you don't have enough attraction, cause escalation once you are in comfort or right after attraction is not that difficult. |
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| Author: | cencalroyalty [ Mon Jun 02, 2008 6:34 pm ] |
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thank you guys. it helps. i do kino but little stuff like touch there arms or high fives. how do i escalate and some good kino-ing? |
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| Author: | r34ct [ Mon Jun 02, 2008 9:18 pm ] |
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You can escalate to some 'good kino' in the comfort phase (by then you should have conveyed interest and qualified her). But dude... even considering telling her you have a crush on her is proof that you haven't even built attraction!! If you built attraction, you wouldn't have to tell her that you like her, because you would have made it clear in the attraction phase... either indirectly or by saying things like "wow you're amazing, i can't even talk to you now!" or "there's something about you....I'm drawn to you, you have to rationalize this for me" You know? let her know you're interested by teasing, push and pull, bait hook reel release, and making her qualify herself. Good luck man. If you're in comfort and you haven't conveyed interest (you feel the need to TELL her that you have a 'crush on her') then you're in friend zone. |
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| Author: | cencalroyalty [ Mon Jun 02, 2008 11:46 pm ] |
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thanks r3act. so you dont say your attracted, you feel it.good advice. ima start qualifying them more. |
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