I was JUST in a cinema Day 2. I know it's not the best place (by far) to go day 2, but it was special in this case since she thought the movie was out of the theaters, and she reaaalllly wanted to see it. Also we did more stuff before and after to strengthen the comfort.
So here's how it went : as we sit down, i put my arms around her. This feels natural since we both know we're on a date. *Cinema theaters screams date setting*.
Then i hold her hand with my hand, feed her popcorn with the hand that's over her, etc. Just working on kino. Then i did a few take-backs to make her feel comfortable *like take my arm off for a few secs to rearrange my seat/position and put it back*. That tells her that i am not a creep and i can control myself.
Then, since i say a gazillion funny things in movies usually, i fight not to tell her what's going on in my head, except for the best jokes. When that one came, i just shot it and she laughed super hard. When she stopped, she looked at me and i was shooting her the warmest smile i could summon. And then, after a few seconds of eye contact, it just felt so natural : we kissed.
Of course i had good attraction prior to stepping into the cinema. That was all comfort building.
so basically work on kino and work her up so that it feels comfortable for her to kiss you. Although i would suggest that if you get 3 IoIs or more, just go for it as soon as you find an opportunity. Find ways to go with the 3 secs eye-contact, it'll feel very natural.
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That won't be happening again I assure you, I'd rather get a slap as a man than bow out like a chicken again.