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Author:  rambolito [ Tue Sep 05, 2017 4:26 am ]
Post subject:  Proceed or cut-off
There's an HB 1000 I have oneitis for... I text her occasionally and she reciprocates nicely. I believe I had done great, I sexually teased her and overall there was kind of connection. Yesterday was my birthday so she came over to the bar where I was celebrating it, we then headed to a club but we were at different places at the venue since she had a friend's farewell party. Went to look for her to tell her to come to where I was at the venue and found her kissing another guy. Told her a couple of times to go with me, she said "I'll go" and never went. Today she called my best friend and said she had been seing that other guy in secret... thing is she also gives me lots of IOI's and also agees to come to plans I invite her to so I dont know what to make of it.
Should I act indifferent and let the door open for her? Text her lightly and let her know by doing it that I'm not mad and don't care what she does, should I wait for her to text or should I cut her off completely?
I believe she feels somewhat guilty since she called my friend and offered an explanation...
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Tue Sep 05, 2017 4:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Proceed or cut-off
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Today she called my best friend and said she had been seing that other guy in secret...

Translation: "I've got to send a message to Rambolito so he gets off my back. He's just a friend."

So she calls your friend, knowing it will get to you.

Had she called your friend and said, "I made a mistake last night kissing that guy," she'd be worried about what you think. Instead she's digging in deeper.

Next this one, but warmly. Keep options up, see other women.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Sep 05, 2017 6:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Proceed or cut-off
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There's an HB 1000 I have oneitis for...

Once I read this, I was able to stop reading and immediately tell you, to cut your loses, move on, lick your wounds and you'll be in position to attract another that is of better quality. There is NO such thing as a hb 1000, and your willingness to portray her that way speaks to how overly invested you are into the situation. That level of investment "pushes" people away, it doesn't "pull" them closer to you. Right now her door says "Pull" so if you keep pushing on it, that will be that. Do the opposite. And for your own sakes, please go find some other women to talk to at the same time.
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