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Author:  Nifty20 [ Tue Aug 30, 2016 3:16 am ]
Post subject:  2nd Time Problem: But I think I got it.
Hey guys, had a nice evening out tonight nonetheless with this new girl.

However, I am getting quite annoyed with myself about getting my foot into her (any girls) door, or her into mine after perfect dates. I don't think there really isn't much to fix but any points, comments cool, but I want to vent somewhere as this just happened tonight maybe there is something.
So here it is.

Tonight (as with most nights) went almost exactly as planned. Had a nice dinner, couple drinks went for walks, talked, lots of kino.

This girl I was with tonight however I "known" since High school but recently I sparked it up a notch out of nowhere and tonight I let her know the real me once she agreed to meet me. She was very hesitant with kino at first but I knew she liked it because she enjoyed holding hands, kissing her cheek, and being held as we walked talked even though she kept saying we are friends which I agreed ;) .

So after all this energy put into the night I drove her home, I dont know what it is, I had it all planned out, I told her I created this artwork and it was published online (it was), and I will have to show her once we get back to her house. So here we are back at her house at the end of the night, we talk in the car for like 2 minutes and for some freaking reason I told her to get out I want to get back home. Completely forgetting I was supposed to show her my artwork inside, or the goal being to get my ass inside her house lol

Now in my mind I believe I told her to get out because the last time I drove a girl home, after a date I told her okay lets go inside and eat some icecream, and she said sorry you cant come inside. And I kinda argued saying why not, and ya denied.

So this time tonight with this new girl I was like maybe if I tell her to get out and see im not interested in coming inside maybe she will invite me.

yep didnt happen, I told her to get out and I gave her a kiss (woopdedoo) and that was that no invitation to come inside.
Figures. What sucks is as I was pulling out of the driveway I realized what I just did.

Anyways I think I learned my lesson, which is by acting out of character (yourself) you act and think in bad ways. It wasn't me telling her the "get out" it was the me trying to act cool. if that makes sense. Something the book models harps on not to do.

Kinda long, to wrap up, the girl I went out tonight is going away on a family vacation this week, you think it will be nice to invite her out once more before she leaves..or wait until she comes back? I am busy with other things for the next 3 days. Wednesday will be only perfect day. but I am thinking with her leaving and all the energy put into tonight and it being so close from last seeing each other it may turn her off.


Just wanted to get this off my chest.
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Author:  Chief [ Tue Aug 30, 2016 10:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: 2nd Time Problem: But I think I got it.
I've been waiting for the right moment to post this:
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Also, your ego is trying to protect you. "She can't reject me if I fuck it up first! Haha! I win!"
Except you don't actually win.

You just gotta be all like, "Hey, fuck you, Ego! I'm gonna risk it all and always escalate because YOLO" like all the damn time.

Or if you don't like the YOLO philosophy then you can be all existential or be a positive nihilist and be all like "Nothing matters/exists so fuck it, I'll do everything fun."

Also, I highly recommend trying to meet up and close the deal before she leaves. Gotta catch up on too much buying temperature and shit if you wait until she comes back from the vacation. It's definitely possible but it can be a bitch to deal with.
Author:  Nifty20 [ Tue Aug 30, 2016 2:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 2nd Time Problem: But I think I got it.
Quote:
I've been waiting for the right moment to post this:
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Also, your ego is trying to protect you. "She can't reject me if I fuck it up first! Haha! I win!"
Except you don't actually win.
Exactly how I felt driving away haha
Appreciate the comment, I will work on the nothing else matters approach that's going to make a difference.

nice gif to lol
Author:  Nifty20 [ Mon Sep 05, 2016 4:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 2nd Time Problem: But I think I got it.
Hey chief, didnt get a chance to get out with her again before she left too busy she said and had plans with her bestfriend day before leaving, I kinda left on a bad note texting her, if she wanted to meetup ill be at this bar, and that i could watch her turtle and shit while she was away. I didnt get a reply.

So what you think not to text her anymore? I think thats what I am going to have to do.
Author:  Johnny Utah [ Mon Nov 28, 2016 7:30 am ]
Post subject:  Re: 2nd Time Problem: But I think I got it.
Some women will make you drive all around town and drop them off at home like you are their personal taxi. If your instincts we're repeatedly signalling to you that a drive all the way to her home would be a waste of time and gas money with the bonus of being sexually frustrated, then you made the correct choice.

I realize that this might not have been the case, but there are women that do this shit and I drop them right away. Believe it or not, having the pride to put your boot down against this shit is more important than hooking up with a stupid woman that is annoying anyway.
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