Basically, my plan is to approach someone that's in my class, build rapport with her, #-close her, then set aside a day where we can meet each other. we could text each other in-between days just so that things don't get awkward between us when we actually see each other face-to-face. then on the second meet, i could mention how there's something cool at my place as we're talking and just tell her that she should come over and i'll offer her a ride.

If you meet a girl in class and she wants to give you her number, if you have the time you should be trying to get her somewhere else...coffee, a walk, a bar. If she agrees to something like that, you should be trying to get her home.

This plan is so vanilla that you are going to spend your time and energy into women and it will rarely work out. This is what every average guy does. This is what every girl is used to doing while weeding out guys to figure out if they are worthy or not. If she's used to rejecting guys that use this plan, she will likely reject you too because that's what she's used to doing.

Right. Isn't that what i outlined in my little plan? If this is what average guys have been doing, then any tips on what i can do differently to get her back home? i thought my idea sounded pretty safe but dang..

Your plan isn't good because you are planning to get out of the moment instead of pushing boundaries. A phone number is a boundary. A kiss is a boundary. A date is a boundary. The more boundaries that you push from the moment you meet a girl, the more you will give her a swept off her feet feeling and be able to seduce her.

So you're telling me to just keep on pushing: push for a number-close; push for a day 2; push for compliance.

Your plan is a plan of making it to a checkpoint and then going home and start from where you left off at another time. That is almost like starting over again because she'll encounter distractions that will cause her to lose attraction. You want to seduce her in one fluid motion.

i can understand where you're coming from. within a college setting, your style would be perfect for going out on a typical friday night. but as i've said in the very beginning, im interested in building attraction over the course of at least a week to the point where the girl is comfortable enough to come home with me. it's not impossible, i just need to know how to go about it.

but you are right on one thing: i shouldn't push so much that i'll scare her away, but enough for her to leave an impression.