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| Author: | Ap [ Tue Apr 26, 2016 3:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Dealing with other guys messaging someone I like |
Hey guys and gals, I'm having somewhat of a problem I'm starting to get attached to this girl I've been sleeping with. The problem is she's good looking and I was dealing with all her bullshit fine until I've seen how many messages off lads she was getting on PoF ( plenty of fish ). She was lying in bed on her phone and her phone was going none stop. Yeah i still speak to loads of different girls and she's seen all my messages and she was even getting a little jealous. But I just don't know how to deal with it from here, I guess I'd rather know if she's meeting up with other lads but the honest answer she probably is. What's the best way to deal with this? freeze her out or.... Any advice would help. Thanks Ap |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Tue Apr 26, 2016 3:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dealing with other guys messaging someone I like |
Doesn't sound like the two of you are exclusive. If that ever happens, then you have the right to complain. Stop being insecure when you're lying in the bed with a girl and other guys are only able to message her. |
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| Author: | Ap [ Tue Apr 26, 2016 4:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dealing with other guys messaging someone I like |
Thank you for the response, I am been insecure and i have no idea why it's really bugging me :/ I'm usually ok with shit like this. |
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| Author: | masterm1ne [ Tue Apr 26, 2016 5:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dealing with other guys messaging someone I like |
It bugs you bc you don't want to lose her to someone else. Early in my pickup years I made a fake profile of an attractive woman in my class on POF. That profile got 100+ messages per day. When it went online, guys would spam chat invites... lol. One of these girls that modeled I went out with told me why she didn't give me her # right away. Guys blow her phone up. You have to accept it is a part of nature if you're with a hottie. If she's sleeping with you I wouldn't worry much about it, esp if you're talking to other people too. Most girls are very selective with who they sleep with, esp if they are attractive. At a young age they learn they can pretty much get any guy... |
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| Author: | Ap [ Tue Apr 26, 2016 7:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dealing with other guys messaging someone I like |
Thank you both for them responses, I just had a moment of weakness. On the bright side I took the piss out of her saying i bet she had no messages today since she looked so bad in her snapchats, which she found funny and after negging her a little while longer she invited herself round tonight. Both of your responses made me realise how stupid i am at times so thank you. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Apr 26, 2016 8:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dealing with other guys messaging someone I like |
[quote="Ap" i have no idea why it's really bugging me :/ I'm usually ok with shit like this.[/quote] Herpes scare |
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